I want to share it because it can also help you dramatically improve how you feel about yourself and consequently, increase the amount of positive attention and gifts you receive (sometimes from out of the blue, perfect strangers!)

Years ago, I tried it on my banker in California (shhh, don’t tell him!) and I actually was able to get a lot of annoying bank charges removed on my account and I think I said one sentence. That same day, I made sure I used the secret while walking on the street back to my house and even though I was wearing my ratty jeans and a tank top, I had more men staring and smiling at me than I thought was possible. (You know that feeling when you swear they must be staring at someone behind you so you try to be all cool, but then you realize, WOW, they really ARE staring at me?!) But the ultimate was when I used the secret and I got a phone call from a man that I was thinking about and obsessing when he was going to call me and voila, he called!

Now, of course everyone is different, but that’s just the tip of what is possible if you commit to using this secret.

The Secret: The Pleasure Vibe

There’s two parts to this secret. Part 1 is about YOU. Part 2 is about other people.

How it works:

Part 1 is about taking time to PLEASURE yourself every single day.NOTE: Now, to be clear, I’m not just talking about physical pleasure aka get out your vibrator, have crazy quickie sex etc, but that’s certainly one way to go about it. Pleasure is about any activity that activates your senses and is a personal ritual that you do for YOU.

This could be: reading a book in the park, taking a bubble bath, shopping at that vintage boutique you say you’re going to go to but never do, you get the picture. It’s non-negotiable time that is simply existing to pleasure and delight you. And you must do it EVERY DAY. It need not cost any money or take up your entire afternoon but it’s something that fills your cup up. See, when we take the time to consciously insert PLEASURE into our day, it actually sends a calming vibration to the brain and nervous system. It’s something to look forward to and while I’m not a scientist or a doctor, I know when I engage in it, my heart rate goes down, I feel lighter, saner and I come up with my most brilliant ideas. Because when you’re in pleasure or anticipating it, your energy is OPEN. It’s excited and BRIGHT. And that’s the SAME energy that attracts a man (or woman) worthy of your time.

So, what’s YOUR Pleasure activity? Write it down _____________________ .(You can probably think of more than that can’t you? Write the others down too!)

Part 2 is about consciously conjuring up pleasure feeling with other people in your everyday environment.

Now I know that sounded all witchy (conjuring is such a cool word!) but it’s never about manipulation. At all. It’s about choosing what to focus on in others and subconsciously, yourself. Because let’s face it. We’re all narcissistic and anyone we meet is simply a reflection of ourselves, or a part of ourselves that we recognize somewhere from some time.

How it works: Whenever you engage with someone, whether eye contact or conversation, pick ONE area of their body to appreciate. Like REALLY appreciate. Take it in. Let it fill your entire body for that moment. If you’re new to this, start with one person/day to get used to it. Or that really freaks you out, you can start by admiring a plant or a tree or a dog (hey, it’s all energy!) Be VERY specific. See, once you start sending out the “appreciate” vibe, the other person or thing feels it and you will start to get that mirrored back to you. Mirrored back appreciation. Does it get any better than that?

An example from the bank in California years ago  (I can’t believe I’m sharing this!)

He was not that handsome. (I know, I’m direct.) He was a bit overweight and his shirt was kind of coming out of the side of his pants because it was too small. But I had picked him as my “pleasure” example to test the theory.

“So, what brings you here today, Diana?” He smiles really big.

“So, it seems that I have some charges on my account and I think they are overdrafts. Could you take a look and see if there’s anything you could do about that?”

“Uh, of course! Hang on just a minute while I pull up your account.”

<NOW>

Okay so now I consciously started to focus on one attribute which was his broad shoulders. They were very strong and I just kind of took them in. Mind you, I wasn’t staring at them. I just took a long glance and then kept appreciating them in my minds’ eye (I know, it sounds a bit strange but it’s what it takes!). Very strong. Solid. I felt my body tingle a bit. And I was smiling. At my purse.

And then I look up.

And he’s seriously grinning from ear to ear. His cheeks flush red and his fingers start stumbling on the keys.

“Uh, I’ll be right back.”

(Hmmm I wonder if he thinks I’m crazy? I thought)

A few minutes later, he returns and says, “I just spoke to my manager and he never reverses overdrafts, but he reversed all of yours. (He smiles goofily even bigger!) Is there anything else I can help you with? Would you like some coffee? Water for the road?”

(Oh my Goddess, it worked!)

“No, thanks! I’m walking. But thank you SO much for all your help!”

And I left, grinning from ear to ear. And I took a candy. It was my pleasure prize.

The bottom line:

Pleasuring yourself  and appreciating pleasure in others=increased happiness and unexpected returns. CLICK HERE TO TWEET THAT!

Your Turn: Leave a Comment + SHARE!

1. What’s YOUR pleasure activity? Name one that we can all share with each other to get ideas:

2. What’s one place that you will try this exercise this week? A park? At the grocery store? Report back your findings!

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My client, *Andrew (name changed for privacy) shared some male perspective on this and his wisdom inspired me to write today’s blog post. Note: I have paraphrased and expanded on our conversation so that it is actionable and focused for you to read.

Diana: So Andrew, what piece of advice would you give to guys and gals out there who want to have an amazing relationship?

Andrew:  Ladies and dudes, you have to decide whether you want to be a Jaguar or a pick-up truck in a relationship. And guys, you have to know what kind of lady you are dealing with up front and be prepared accordingly. And it has nothing to do with what vehicle you actually prefer driving okay? I want to be clear about that. It’s a metaphor.

Diana: Um, okay, that’s very interesting. Can you elaborate a bit more on that please? What makes someone a Jaguar or a pick-up truck?

A: A Jaguar…

Okay, well, my girlfriend is super high maintenance and I mean that in the best way possible. She’s gorgeous of course, but she is high maintenance because she knows what she wants. And she has all these requirements about what she expects from me. And she calls me out on my shit when I mess up. It’s really annoying but I respect her for it.

And yes, she’s moody as hell sometimes but I put up with it because she always knows when she’s acting ridiculous and she’ll apologize and thank me for being patient and listening to her. And she’s incredibly generous. Sometimes she goes over the top with stuff like surprising me with little presents or crazy unexpected stuff. She listens to me and let’s me read comics even though she thinks it’s juvenile. But she requires a lot of attention. She’s a Jaguar.

Diana: Okay, so if I summarize, a “Jaguar” is someone who:

• has requirements and standards and communicates that to others

• calls people out when they’re crossing a standard or they aren’t being respected or treated well

• incredibly generous and is attractive inside and out

• requires a lot of attention but it’s well worth it!

A: Exactly! Okay, so then there’s the pick-up truck.

Diana: Yes, I can’t wait to hear this.

The Pick-Up Truck:

A: Okay, so if you or the person you tend to date is a pick-up truck, they are fairly low-maintenance. They don’t really ask for a whole lot and they have dents and bruises, maybe even lots of nicks on the bumper, but they’d rather just chug along than invest any money to get it fixed. They stay in the same beat-up, dangerous vehicle even though the light is on and there’s fumes coming out of the exhaust! Or worse, they try to do it all themselves and then what happens? One day they are on the side of the road in the middle of a rainstorm or something and the person they’re supposedly dating sees them… and keeps driving right past them!

In relationships, these are the people who just become doormats;  they just will give the guy or girl whatever they want without any thought to themselves or if it’s going to help them too. These people hate to be a burden but they always screw themselves and then wonder why no one wants to be with them for too long. I’ve been this guy and I’ve seen those kind of girl. It sucks!

Diana: Wow. That is pretty brutal but so true!

Andrew: I’m not really good at sugarcoating.

Diana: And that’s why you’re awesome. You just tell it to us straight. So, okay, let’s offer people some insight they can take-away from all this.

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3 TIPS for YOU!

So, based on what Andrew shared,  here are THREE tips I came up with for those of you who may find yourself more on pick-up side than the Jaguar side.

• If what you really want is someone who is going to stick around long term, you’re going to need to be comfortable with saying NO to all the losers out there that you KNOW are not worthy of being in the same room with you. Just say no. And if you feel awful or guilty, let those feelings be there and say no anyway. You’ll feel relief and it gets easier!

• The sex is never that good that it’s worth sacrificing what you really want-someone who truly loves you and is fine with all of you, even the parts you are embarrassed about.

• Act like a Jaguar, even if you don’t believe you’re one. Fake it for awhile. It works!

Your Turn:

What do YOU think about the whole Jaguar vs. pick-up thing? Any advice you have for either “car?” Post your comments! Would love to hear from you!

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Let’s play a game. I call it “have you ever.”

Have you ever…

• ever had some well-meaning person give you unsolicited advice about your life that left you feeling worse about yourself than before

• ever doubted yourself and given into negativity and other people’s opinions about you

• ever felt like you are in a room waiting for your life to start?

I’ve been there!

True Story:

With my orange tree. Mother Nature reminds me that we are ALL abundant!

I want to share a true story with you in the hopes that it helps you see that no matter what has gone down, there’s something that you have inside of you that trumps anyone’s opinion, your own fear and dare I say it, even your supposed “destiny.”

One of my secret (and not so secret anymore!) dreams has been to travel to Italy. It’s been an obsession of mine since I can’t even remember. I’ve never been there but you know how sometimes a place just calls to your Soul and you don’t know why? You may have grown up in a different culture entirely but still, it’s like this gnawing desire that grows stronger the older you get? That’s Italy for me. And now, many many years later, I am FINALLY going! It’s all arranged and for ten glorious days in June, I will be indulging in all things Italian.

And it’s funny. When I told people that I was going to Italy, most of them were like, “Oh my gosh! Italy is soooo beautiful! I went when I was younger. How romantic! You’re so lucky! I remember when….

And then after all the positive stuff wore off, they’d throw in, “But you know plane tickets to Europe in the summer especially are ridiculous, right?”

“I bet you can’t get time off from your job.

Well, you’re lucky you don’t have kids or a husband yet.”  (Uh…thanks?)

Talk about a downer on my dream. Other stuff that people said to me included:

“The men there are shameless flirts! You are going there by yourself? And you have a boyfriend back home? Watch out!”

When You Doubt Yourself

But the most interesting comment ended up becoming a big lesson for me in listening to myself. I was at an event in Los Angeles with two very well-known intuitives whose work I respect so much. We did a meditation exercise about Abundance and Joy. After that meditation, I ended up doodling a few things on my notepad, two of which were a heart and the word Florence! I hadn’t said a word to anyone and I got SO excited that I started sharing how I really wanted to go Italy and put on a workshop about love and intuition. The ladies at my table were so supportive and excited for me!

Anyhow, later in the event, there was a rare opportunity to stand at the mike and ask a question we wanted the intuitive“hits” on and I didn’t know what I was going to ask. I just wanted to ask something. Anything! (Looking back, I know that was probably my Ego talking and I could have just sat that one out, but there are no accidents!)

So I asked all smugly, “Would this summer be a good time to go to Italy? I really want to live there for a little bit and put on a workshop.”

There was a long pause. One said, “Oh no! You will have more money NEXT year because you will be in an “8” abundance year. Wait.”

The other agreed.“Your ducks will not be in a row if you go this year. You have to take care of the basics first. Wait until next year.”

“Well, alright then. Thank you.” I begrudgingly went back to sit down at my table and my good friend and founder of the Reinvention Channel, Vidette, who I introduced you all to awhile back slid a piece of paper across to me like we were in school.

It said, “Diana, why are you doubting yourself? Your intuition said Florence and you told me this summer. Why are you letting someone tell you otherwise?”

She’s an awesome friend and she was right. I love Vidette.

What Now?

But I shouldn’t shake what I had just been told. I tried to look at the situation objectively and rationally.

Side note: That lasted about two seconds because well, if you’ve ever tried to look at your own stuff objectively, it’s pretty hard to do. We want what we want! That’s why people hire me, so they get an outsider’s perspective when they can’t see through the fog of their own thoughts.

Here’s what mine were back then:

1. Yes, I do numerology too thankyouverymuch and I know that next year (2014)  the numbers show that yes, if I’m following my gut, abundance should flow pretty freely more than this year (yay!).

2.  But, I don’t care. I still want to go to Italy.

3.  I may not have all my ducks in a row, but I never understood that expression and frankly, I find it more satisfying to see what happens when there IS no row and the ducks are happy to go wherever they want to. What’s fun about being in a straight line?

ps: In case you didn’t hear me Spirit, I really want to go to Italy. Really badly. (Soooo rational, right?)

I got MAD and like I wrote about in an earlier post, I used that anger and later that insatiable DESIRE and asked myself, “If I didn’t care what ANYONE said and I had no fears about limitations on my time or resources, what would I WANT to do?”

The answer that came?  Use your travel miles, Diana and go to Italy.

My intuition directed me to the United.com site and I saw that I had 80,000 unused miles! It takes 60,000 to get to Florence, so there goes the “airfare is too much” objection . And soon after I booked my airfare (literally within 45 minutes), I found a beautiful room to stay in through a secure travel site and I also got a strong hit that I will be writing like a mad Goddess while I’m there. I am SO excited to be doing sessions with my clients from Italia over gelato! And the rest will figure out itself.

3 Golden Nuggets for YOU:

1) Your consistent soul-driven desires TRUMP everything else. Listen to them.

Even when you choose to cave in and NOT follow your intuition, your soul-driven desires nag at you in the middle of your workday, they pop into your head or your thoughts late at night or first thing in the morning. You may even get signals of other people doing stuff that reminds you of your latent desires that you’ve put on the back burner.

Let your soul-driven desires have a voice. Hear them out. They may have some pretty amazing plans for you that you couldn’t have thought up no matter how many psychics you went to or how many pieces of advice your friends or family members give you about what’s “for your Highest Good.” Listen. Stay open to their whispers.

2. Just START. You don’t have to have the whole plan. (Boring!)

You just have to know what you want and do the next immediate action. Then you get the next set of steps. Kind of like what happened with me. First, I had to negate my own intuition only to get mad at myself, which fueled me going to United.com, then to the travel site and finally I was so on fire that my creativity and intuition were doing the happy dance together.

3. Be Discerning. Naysayers are inevitable, but listening to them is a choice.

Most people are well-meaning and when you can remember that we’re all doing the best we can from our own unique life experiences, you can chill out and let the outside negativity or the fears that aren’t yours just slip off your aura. Replace it with compassion and loving detachment and do what you want to do anyway! (It’s more fun and takes a lot less energy!)

Your Turn:

Q: What’s a place you’ve always wanted to travel to? Why?

1. Post your answer using the “Leave a Comment” button down right!

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3. Interested in learning more about what could be really be holding you back from what you want?

Fora limited time, I am scheduling 15 complimentary 30-minute “Sparkle” consultations with those of you who are committed to your personal development. These are conversations designed to SPARK you and help you learn more about yourself.

You are:

• committed to learning more about yourself and have an open mind

• open to receiving spiritual coaching and never blame anyone or anything for your current circumstances

• an action-taker who has a desire to grow

Is that you?

Very very important: Read this before you say YES!

1) These are different than intuitive readings. The intention for these Sparkle consults are to help you discover what is really going on or blocking you from what you say you want in one area of your life. So if you come to this call wanting answers or wanting my “intuitive hits” on your life, I will kindly direct you back to my services page to book a reading. 

2) I will ask you questions, get to know you better and based on what we uncover together, I will make specific suggestions of ways that we work together to help you achieve your goals. This could be suggesting that you apply for one of my training or coaching program, consider a Soul reading or I may get a sense that a numerology report and an audio course I have would be of greatest benefit. It varies per person.

3) You also have time to ask questions about how I work and see if I’m the right person for you!

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Diana

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“Worldly success and Divine transcendence are NEVER mutually exclusive.”

-Kelly Cutrone author of “If You Have To Cry, Go Outside (and other things your mother never taught you)”

I used to believe that they were. I used to be afraid that if I ever met the right guy, he’d up and disappear as soon as I found out that I was psychic.

I’d fear that if I experienced a modicum of financial success that suddenly my intuitive gifts would vanish into thin air (poof!) or that I would be punished by the Gods (or Goddesses!)

And I’d fear that my insatiable desire to travel and see the world would ruin my potential to meet Mr. Right and have awesome friendships that filled me up.

What really happened:

There were a few men I dated who thought what I did was weird but none of them actually left me because of my psychic gifts.  I have experienced financial success and my intuition is still intact and actually on fire (thank Goddess!). And I have traveled to several countries and all around the US and come back in one piece. While some of the jobs (and relationships) I had before I departed on my crazy adventures did occasionally end, it was never because of the travel. If anything, it brought me closer to the people in my life because it forced us both to prioritize communication and actually make time to reconnect!

I actually just manifested my VERY first trip to Florence, Italy for June (more on that next week) and the man I’m seeing is still with me and loving me for it, even though I’m leaving him alone for ten days to go off and be a crazy Dora the explorer. He says, “I’m glad it’s 10 days and not 3 months. You need to do this. Go. I love you.” That’s something I never thought would be possible through my old lens of how my partner “should” react. He’s teaching me a lot!

My point?

Your biggest fear realized will probably never come true.

Unless that’s your S.M.O (Spirit Modus of Operation).

But there is a HUGE difference between living your life in scarcity either-or land and  living your t life with a “BOTH” mentality. I can speak from experience because for the longest time I was in the former either/or and I know how hard life felt when I was in that space.

But when you live from BOTH, there’s a  huge difference in your happiness level. You have peace of mind. And yes, you naturally attract upgraded relationships and finances.

This “both” energy allows you to have a freakin LOVE affair with your life and the BEST love affairs that you read about in novels are never all one color are they?

They are passionate, wild, messy, inconvenient, heart-breaking at times and heart-opening at others.

They aren’t perfect.

But while you’re in the crazy love affair, it’s tantalizing, enjoyable, maddening all at once.

That’s what life is.

You deserve to have richness in the material world, whatever luxury your heart desires AND to be fully ALIVE and CONNECTED to your Spirit. To your Divine nature. On fire financially AND spiritually. On fire with your friendships or that hot man or woman in your life AND have a kick ass connection with your Spirit Guides.One without the other is just plain crazy-making in my opinion. It’s a life half-lived.

So, how do you make the transition from Either/OR to BOTH?

The answer?

You must learn how to develop, trust and act on your intuition. The most successful people I know trust their intuitive Knowing in EVERY area of their life AND they follow through on that intuitive guidance without question.If you’re new to intuition, it can be super hard to tell the difference between that wise voice and wishful thinking.

But it’s possible.

A tip:

Begin by noticing the repetitive nudges you get each day. Write them down in a notepad. Then ask yourself, “Is this true?” If it’s a green lights go feeling, you have your answer and you can choose to act on it or wait. If it’s not true, then move on. It’s not your intuition. Simple as that.

The bottom line: You CAN have both. It starts by simply believing that you can. Tweet that!

I believe in you.

YOUR Turn!

1. What is one book that has helped you believe in yourself?

2. Post your response using the “Leave a Comment” button down below right with the title or author!

3. Want to learn how to become an attraction magnet by simply using your Goddess-given intuition?

I’d love to show you how!

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To your success with buckets of love and sparkles,

xoxo

Diana

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In this video, Diana shares:

• why “faking it till you make it” doesn’t always work
• how she manifested a lucrative writing gig in less than 24 hours using anger!
• 3 steps to channel your anger so it works FOR you instead of against you!

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“I work so hard, and feel like no one seems to even notice.”

“Money comes into my life and it seems to go out just as fast? Why?”

Appreciation. Acknowledgement and Financial Abundance.

Those are the three biggest things that I hear people talking about CONSTANTLY.

How can we get more of THAT?

It’s easy.

Get a pen.

This is super deep.

Are you ready?

My million dollar answer. This is going to make me famous. And it’s going to make you rich and adored.

Here it is: Stop complaining. Not just out loud. But even inside your own head. Just stop it!

It’s so easy to say but between all the media negativity and outside energies, it can be really challenging to put into practice.

But if what you want is a better, richer life with a loving man (or woman) by your side plus the Benjamins in the bank, this is a non-negotiable spiritual law.

The Law (in my own words for you is):

“The strongest energy ALWAYS wins. We all have light and Shadow sides to our psyche, our thoughts and most importantly to the vibration we choose to put out into the world. Whichever energy is dominant is the one that will be responsible for manifesting whatever it is you see in your external reality.” Period.

Are you with me?

So, my invitation to you? Go on a COMPLAINING fast. For the next 24 hours. I double triple dare you!

This is harder than it appears. You’d be surprised how many times you may catch yourself complaining in passing and if you do complain, each time you catch yourself, I want you to:

1.STOP.

2. Close your eyes.

3. Breathe in and out and say “I now choose to stop cutting off my financial  flow” (Even if your finances are in awesome shape, there’s something really tangible that hits home when we use the word “financial flow.” But feel free to substitute your own power statement here so that it feels authentic for you and what you want to create more of.

Take Action: Your Spirit Challenge!

1. Will you be a part of our Spirit challenge this week?

If you are a YES, post a YES in the “Leave a Comment” section on here! I want to cheer you on!

2. Prizes!

After your 24 hours are complete (Deadline to post is Friday, April 12) , for anyone who posts a comment with 1-3 sentences of how the Complaining Challenge positively affected your day, I will be emailing a fun prize to!

Note: You MUST post with your full email address or I won’t know where to send your freebie!

3. If you want to learn more about getting respect and feeling adored and understood in your relationships with family, friends and lovers, I HIGHLY recommend my new audio course, Find Your Spirit, Find Yourself. Check it out here: www.URintuitive.com/realms2.html

Have a Blessed week and thank you so much for reading!

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Love,

Diana

There’s no going back.

There may a deep and profound knowing within you that some part of your life will never be the same. Maybe you left someone behind. Maybe you were the one left. Maybe you left a home behind. Maybe you’re moving. Getting or losing a job. Or perhaps, shedding an old perspective that no longer serves you?

The Fun

It can feel like everything is moving so fast that sometimes internally, you’re playing catch-up. Or vice versa. You may be very clear about where you want to go but the external, the material world is lagging a bit in co-creating that manifestation. It’s okay. The timing, the slow-downs, the frustrations. It’s all part of a bigger Divine plan.

You may not know exactly what that is, but what’s the fun in knowing all the answers, roads and destinations ahead of time? Some of those roads are unpaved at the moment, waiting for you to fill in the cracks or write the end of a chapter so you can create and head down a new yellow brick road that is just perfect for you.

Is it easy? Maybe not. Is it necessary? Your Spirit will tell you that. If you’re living your life based on what your intuition shares with you in quiet moments, April will be a wild, crazy fun adventure. If you’re not and you’re constantly looking for validation or answers outside of yourself, April could be hell.

It’s really about the balance isn’t it? Knowing when you’re spun out in your head thinking it’s your intuition (great time to get an intuitive reading to help you access what is your True Higher wisdom) and knowing when your intuition is right on point, but there’s a bit of fear at having to make the changes necessary to fulfill that Soul-guided message.

Your April Surrender Plan:

The key is surrender. In typical Diana-like fashion, I’m going to acronym it for you.

Surrender is about:

S=Simplifying your life

U=Understanding that you are exactly where you need to be

R=Remembering to count your blessings

R=Re-considering what you really want

E=Eating foods that uplift and nourish the Soul vs. unconscious stuffing to avoid emotions

N=Never being afraid to say, “I need help.”

D=Dancing everyday, even if it’s just in your mind (your subconscious doesn’t know the difference )

E=Ending a chapter that has long been over, even if it’s hard

R=Remembering to make time for fun. It doesn’t have to be all work and no play. Your Inner child will rejoice!

Your Soul Hour: Are you coming?

Have a blessed April and to help you and lift the vibration of our entire community and world, I’d love to have you as my honored guest on Sunday, April 7th for an tele-party called “Your Soul Hour”

It’s free and you can come get a mini-reading or ask a question to your Spirit Guides/the Angels to help you get on track for Spring!

RSVP required and there will be a recording as everyone can benefit from the questions asked. We are truly all one.

Click here to join me and RSVP:

Love and Blessings,

Diana

ps: If you want to ramp up your RELATIONSHIPS (family, friends, lovers, etc)

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Do you secretly want to be famous?

Want to be well-known in your field or be known as the one to go to for a particular thing?

I’m a huge fan of integrating intuition with space clearing as I’ve found that sometimes shifting our OUTER world can trigger our subconscious/inner worlds. When the two worlds are in harmony, you experience manifestation and flow.To keep it very simple, choose one room in your home that you’d like to work some “fame” energy on.

*When you walk in the room, look towards the back CENTER. That is your FAME/reputation space. 

NOTE: Before using any of these 3 suggestions, I always recommend a thorough de-cluttering and cleaning of the space for maximum benefit.

1. Use the colors orange, red and yellow/gold to decorate! Get creative!

The element of this space is FIRE, so you want to stay away from black, which represents WATER. And using logic, water puts out fire, so keep your black vases and desks away from this area.

2. Triangles and diamonds rule:

This area loved the shapes that have points like triangles, diamonds, etc. So, if you have a beautiful rug, angle it slightly or if you are on a budget, you can literally cut out triangle shapes on orange construction paper and tape them to the bottom of your favorite desk or chair legs!

3. Post your awards!

Have you been in the paper for anything? Do you have any certificates or diplomas? This is the place to hang them up and display them proudly!  For extra benefit, again, use firey or earth tones vs. black frames to capitalize on the fire elements.

Below is an example of one of my fame corners. Note the geometric shapes in the fabric and in the center is an amethyst, which is all about spiritual knowledge and healing from higher planes. Hindu Goddess and God, Lakshmi and Ganesh complete this cozy fame space. 

Extra tip:

Ask yourself, “What do I want to be known for?” Cut out pictures, make a vision board or add photos or snippets that represent that to put in this area. Example: One lady I know wanted to be on TV, so she literally created a TV frame out of construction paper and put a picture of herself in the frame! Soon after, she landed her own show!

Your Turn!

1. Which do you want to be known for?

2. Do you have any ideas on how to spruce up your space?

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Have a fabulous week!

Love,

Diana

Only to learn dismayed,

That any wage I had asked of Life,

Life would have willingly paid.”

-Jessie B Rittenhouse

I first read that quote in Napolean Hill’s Think and Grow Rich and everytime I re-read it, I find something new (great quotes do that!).

Have you ever done any of the following?

• Said YES to a friend’s request for a favor even when you really wanted to say NO but you were too afraid?
• Said YES to the first offer in a job that know you’re overqualified for but you are too afraid to counter-offer and command what you really know you’re worth?
• Said YES to a lover or spouse and done something (or accepted some kind of behavior) that made you feel less than or frustrated afterwards?

If you say YES to any of those, chances are you are undervaluing yourself in some area of your life. (By the way, you’re not alone in this camp. The reason I wrote those examples is because I’ve said YES to all three in the past and I know how soul-sucking it can be!)

As it relates to your most important relationships, are there places where you see your energy being leaked simply because it’s too scary to rock the boat?

You’ll notice a common theme in all those 3 questions above: FEAR.

Fear of not being liked.

Fear of losing something or someone (sometimes before you even have it!)

Fear of confrontation and not being loved for who you are.

But I don’t want to focus on fear. You are a highly conscious, intuitive being (I love you!) and it’s so easy for us to focus on releasing fears, over-processing and putting energy into how to fix something when my opinion is this:

What if….

What if there was nothing for you to fix?

What if instead you chose to put your focus on ACCEPTANCE and truly loving yourself?

What if you felt afraid and did it anyway?

What’s the worst thing that could be possibly happen?

If we go back to the quote at the top, “…any wage I had asked of Life,

Life would have willingly paid.”  I have to ask you the scary question:

What kind of WAGE do you WANT?

And when you think about your most precious relationships, WAGE = The qualities of how you intend to be treated and treat others.

Example: Respected, harmonious communication, powerful, sexy…you get it, right?

See, most people want the Universe to give them a big ole HANDOUT because they are too lazy to take personal responsibility for their failure to say what it is that they WANT in the first place!

The ones like you reading this know better. If you know what you want and you ASK for it, you’re 100000X more likely to actually get it than the person who says, “I don’t know. You decide Universe. Whatever. (But if I don’t like it, I’ll blame you!)

(You can tell this subject gets me riled up!)

Take Action: Your Turn!

So, I’m curious.

1) What is YOUR desired relationship wage?

2) If you’re brave, post your top 3 adjectives that describe how you intend to be treated/treat others using the leave a comment at the bottom of this post.

3) I love you (that’s not an action, but I just wanted to remind you of that!)

ps:

If you want to DRAMATICALLY increase your chances of being respected, heard and have relationships with the people in your life that people will envy, I’d LOVE to have you in my brand-new class “What’s My Spirit Realm: How to Rock Your Relationships and Become a Master Communicator!” starting next week!

Check it out here:

Have a fabulous rest of your week/start to SPRING and I look forward to reading your “Relationship Wage” adjectives!

Love and Blessings,

Diana

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Aretha sang about it. You want it. More respect. That’s R-E-S-P-E-C-T!

There’s nothing more frustrating than feeling like you are in a one-sided conversation or feeling like your words don’t matter.

Luckily, there is something to help you have better communication with the person of your choice. Maybe it’s your son or daughter, a business partner, your lover or dare I say it, YOURSELF.

When you follow these steps, you have the potential to be known as a “5-star” communicator and you can watch your reputation and your energy skyrocket. I call it let your S-O-F-T side. Get a notepad!

But don’t take my word for it.

Try it out for yourself and remember, the action continues after you watch this video. Be sure to post a comment after you watch and share it with your friends!

In this video, you will learn:

• How to stop going on the defensive when you’re about to have a difficult conversation
• My secret tip to getting more respect without DOING anything
• My easy 4-step, 5-minute process to building an awesome reputation (and relationships!)

Take Action Time: Your Turn!

1. Which of the 4-steps of the S.O.F.T process are YOU going to experiment with his week in your conversations?

2. Did you enjoy this post?
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