can you find love if you don’t have your shi& together….

Oooo today’s Q+A is juicy!

This is where I take your questions from the community.

Have a question you want me to consider for the blog? Share it here!

Today’s Q: “Diana, I want to be in a relationship, but I feel like I don’t have all my shi(z) together, especially when it comes to dealing with my emotions and it sounds silly but my finances. I feel like I should be further along and while I do okay for myself, I feel like it may turn off a potential partner….I feel a little embarrassed and like a fraud. Help!”


This is a great question and one I’m sure we can all relate to.

Who hasn’t ever felt like a ‘fraud’ in some area of their life, right?

It’s a very common feeling, especially among the big hearted, high-achievers that I work with.

Here’s my response:

this 1 question influences everything…

Are you making decisions from fear…or love?

This question came up in an impromptu FB live I did on Sunday in response to the pandemic hysteria but, it can also be applied to anything.

When it comes to relationships, so often we make decisions from fear.

What if I’m not enough?

What if it’s too late?

What if they hurt me again?

What if it (dating, etc) doesn’t work?

But what would happen instead if we came from love?

What if I’m already good enough?

What if my timing is perfect?

What if I’m able to love myself no matter what happens?

What if it turns out to be the best thing ever?

The easiest way I know to tell the difference between fear and love is….

Click here to listen to the short audio from the FB live:

Tune in and I’d love to hear your thoughts!

it’s getting serious….

Happy Wed!

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone and the energy is going, you’re excited and nervous…and you wonder, OMG where is this going?

How do I even approach this?

Do they want to get serious with me? 

You don’t want to outright ask because it’s confronting…kinda of like the “we need to talk” jargon feels, right?

But if you do want to go to the next level with someone, there are questions you can ask them (and yourself) to make sure the path is clear.

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