You’ve decluttered, put your bed in a favorable position and gotten two nightstands. Now it’s time for the fun part: adding elements to increase passion in the bedroom (or whatever your intention is!) There are two simple steps. Here we go!
Step 1: Locate the “Love” corner of your room.
When you walk in the door, it’s the back right area.
You can use color to infuse your entire space, but pay particular attention to what is in this area. I once had a client tell me that’s where she put her dirty laundry and it wasn’t a shock that her relationships were a mess!
Step 2: Infuse your space!
My favorite way to infuse a space is with COLOR!
Colors: Use the color guide below to infuse your space with the corresponding energy. Get creative and remember, you don’t have to go nuts and paint your entire room red for passion. Too much of a good thing is not what you’re going for and will actually repel what you want or overcharge the energy. Intentional additions are!
Consider these for: wall paper, wall paint, sheets, comforters, rugs, picture frames, etc
Red=activator, passion, hot sex. Note: Don’t use this color for your sheets if you intend on getting a good night’s rest because it can literally keep you up all night! (Hey, there is a reason that there was a room called the “Red Room” in Fifty Shades of Grey!)
Pink=soul mate love, inner child, playfulness, peace, bringing in the romance Angels
White=Harmony, peace, marriage
Skin tones=Browns, beige, cream are GREAT for sheet colors or comforters as it evokes the feeling of being enveloped in your loved one’s arms.
Too much purple=This is a spiritual vibration color and I once had a consultant tell me that too much of it actually repels lovers because it implies that your primary relationship is with Spirit and you really aren’t interested in a love relationship. (I personally LOVE purple so everything in moderation but if you have an altar with a ton of purple, etc keep it in another room besides the bedroom).
Too much black=Black represents the element of water and emotions. Too much of it and you can see symbolically that you could be calling in a lot of emotion, which can cloud your judgement in relationships or make it hard to move on. On the other hand, if you’re trying for a baby, a little black can make things flow! All in moderation!
Objects of Love and Things to Put Somewhere Else!
Finally, check that you have things in pairs, not just pictures of statues of single people around if you really desire a relationship. Two candles, two nightstands, you get the idea.
Also, move pictures of family out of the direct line of your bed. Symbolically it’s like all those people are watching you having sex or being intimate and well, yea…it’s your call!
What reminds you of love? If your intention is to be in a solid, stable relationship, you’ll want to make sure you have solid stable furniture. No rickety chair with broken arm for you!
Want to have a hot sex life? Create a special place for your naughty lingerie or toys (preferably in the love corner!)
Want to increase communication? Fix that broken phone already!
Everything is symbols and energy.
And if you follow these steps, you’ll be well on your way to a space that supports your intention for love and more!
Soul Q: What is ONE thing you will add to your space this week? Tell us in the comments! And if you are brave, upload a pic of your new space!
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