what to do when you feel ignored via text

Have you ever sent off a text that was really important and heart felt to you only to get crickets coming back?

The more time passes, the easier it is to go into a downward spiral of why the person isn’t responding and the story you tell yourself can get more and more gnarly!

Why aren’t they replying back?
Why are they ignoring me?
Should I not have sent it?
Do they hate me?
What did I do wrong?
Why aren’t they responding? 

And on and on it goes.

Your Ego can fall to the floor, you’re in your head and unable to stop obsessing and you feel your self esteem and self worth quickly spiraling…down, down, down..

Especially if it’s someone you love, really really like and respect.

Ever been there?

Here’s a new perspective to try on and some suggestions of what you can do to catch yourself before you go down the “they didn’t reply black hole” 🙂

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this can feel hard, but it’s possible…

Today’s Q+A comes from a YouTube subscriber: “Diana, I want to be in a relationship but the idea of opening up to someone new freaks me out. How do you overcome a fear of being vulnerable? Help!”

First off, this is a brave question-thank you for asking it!

Being vulnerable can feel really hard, especially if you have opened your heart in the past and been hurt. (been there, goddess!)

Part of calling in a higher-vibration relationship does include opening up and letting someone see the real you. 

Otherwise, you can attract people who are unwilling to fully commit to you and go deeper with you.

Thankfully, you can overcome a fear of being vulnerable…it simply requires a shift in perspective.

Here are 3 steps to do that and get closer to attracting the type of relationship that makes you WANT to open up even with those niggles and insecurities.

Listen Here:

Love,
Diana

3 questions to ask yourself on V-day (regardless of your ‘status’)

Self Love Sabbatical!

Time required: 10-30 minutes depending on your flow 😉

Materials required: pen, paper, candle optional

Journal questions: Ask it aloud and then answer by hand until you feel empty. Then go onto the next question. 

Q: What do I value? What is most important to me right now?

Q: If I was loving myself at the highest level, what would I stop doing (or at least do less of)?

Q: If my soul mate walked through the door right now, what would I be most afraid for him to see about me? What would I be most excited about?

After you finish all three, look back over your answers and notice any observations in your body or any insights that came up!

 

ps: Want to meet me LIVE on Feb 15? You can! I’m co-hosting a Love & Money Ladies’ Night with my good friend Patricia Rodriguez at the Living Room in Chandler, AZ. 

Details: Ladies, are you ready to call in more love and money this year? 

Do you want to meet other like minded, cool women to collaborate with? 

Join us at our very first ❤️L&M💰 EventHosted by bestselling author and relationship coach, Diana Dorell & financial expert, and founder of The LadyPreneur Lounge, Patricia Rodriguez for practical tools and tips!

$10 suggested donation (no one turned away for lack of funds)

Seating is limited. Reserve your seat now!

Go here: www.paypal.me/PRdrgz

your February forecast is here!

Happy Feb!

I know I usually write you on Wed, but wanted to send this a day earlier as it’s officially the New Moon period (new beginnings).

Such a brilliant month for love and partnership and fortunate opportunities if you are loving yourself and paying attention to your heart and truth.

In this video you will:

  • learn what February is about and what it means for you
  • I’ve pulled 4 Goddess cards for each week of the month and shared insights so you can have a heads up
  • learn of an opportunity to love yourself more!
Watch it below.

ps: Are you signed up for the FREE Self-Love Challenge that starts today? If you’re seeing this late, it’s okay-hop on in here.

3 tricks to make first meetings less awkward

Happy Wed!

I was at a restaurant the other night and couldn’t help noticing a couple to the left whose body language screamed, “We are on a first date!”

You know what I mean right? The nervous tone and stilted chuckle when asking and answering questions.

The stiff body language and constant shifting.

At one point, I think the girl even snuck in a text under the table.

(I know…I can’t help it. This is what fascinates me).

First dates and first meetings of any kind can be awkward as hell.

But they don’t have to be.

Here are 3 tricks you can use to make the whole process way more enjoyable.

full transparency: This audio was transcribed from a video I did around the same topic, so if you hear the word video, that’s why! #keepitsimple #goddessway #easeandgrace yo!

Listen here:

ps: Want to learn how to love yourself so you can attract an awesome relationship? I’m so excited to be hosting a FREE 10-day self love challenge that starts next week (Feb 5-Feb 14!) 

Check it out here:

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Have an amazing rest of your week and if you see first daters out there, have compassion 😉