Have you been go-go-go, driving yourself mad trying to do it all lone, wondering why you seem to be manifesting slowly or not at all nd getting exhausted in the process?
This is the negative aspect of the masculine. The positive one is taking Action and being cleared responsible for that action.
On the opposite side, have you been so passive and stuck in your head or emotions that you feel paralysed to take action for fear that it won’t work out or that you will be judged?
This is the negative aspect of the feminine.
The positive one is Tuning in and opening up your receptivity, connecting to your inner Wisdom before you act. If you are too much in one energy, life feels really really hard. But when you can tune into yourself (your feminine), then the actions become simple. (your masculine). They work together in harmony and you feel calm inside, even when what you’re dealing with is really challenging.
To illustrate how both energies operate in an everyday life scenario, can I share story that happened to me literally 10 years ago when I was first beginning this journey?
I was in the first feyyears of my intuitive business and signed up to do numerology readings at a spiritual fair in Arizona.
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#1: Know what you’re asking for
Before the fair, I sat in Meditation and felt myself connecting to so many people. (Feminine) I tk the time to feel the energy of love coming out of my heart chair to theirs and receiving love back if they were sending it to me. It made me giddy and excited and Felt lots of warm energy ad Angels around. From this place, I also got clear that I wanted to attract in people who were ready for the work and who were willing to invest in themselves/saw the value of the services I was offering. (The Masculine). I would stay open to who I was meant to serve and trusted that they would come (Feminine) and would remember to hand them a flier about my work and events (Masculine). With that, we packed up and wen to the Fair.
#2: Trust your feminine, then activate your masculine.
I was at the fair for many hours and there were inevitable slow periods so y assistant an I would take turns being at the booth. (And you guys know I go a little stir crazy if I am asked to sit for too long) so I decided I’d walk around to see the other vendors, treat myself to a reading or a gift, explore, go get more water, walk out for a moment to feel the sun, etc.
Well, whenever I’d come back, my assistant (with a big smile on her face that said, “I’m trying to figure out how to say this nicely.”) said, “Diana, every time you walk away and go explore, the people come and want a reading from you but you aren’t here. One woman came back twice. I wasn’t sure what to tell her.”
At the start of my journey, I would have chained myself to that booth chair for fear the I would “not be available or miss out somehow.” I would have sacrificed my well being and done readings even when I had no water, ad o pee or my stomach was growling because I had skipped lunch to help people. I went back to my original intention around trusting that the people I was mean to serve would be there and I would also be pro-active in sharing what I could help them with if I felt that nudge within.
#3: Receive divine confirmation + stop questioning it (and yourself)
Ironically, this older woman came back (and my assistant was the one wandering now.) She was distraught, a little scattered but very happy to see me. She didn’t say anything except to ask timidly, “…Are YOU….???” I just smiled and replied, “Yes I am. Nic to meet you!” She mentioned that she had been waiting from. But then something unexpected came out of my mouth.
Before I had her sit down, I (well, really the Angels/Spirit) started chatting about how I had just treated myself to a reading with woman on the other side of the room from me and how fabulous she was. I just kept babbling on and on about wonderful this other reader was. The older woman’s eyes got wide and she said, “Oh, does she charge money?” I said, “I think it’s by donation but not required.” And she said, “Well, I have to go see her then! I don’t have any money!” And off she went.
#4: Trust that when you honor your feminine, the masculine can show up for you!
Now, I know some of you may be sitting there thinking, “Diana, that was silly! You just turned her away!” But my intuition knew better. There was a reason why that came out of my mouth. I was not meant to serve her. ad she could be better served with this other reader. And it was no accident that each time she came by, I was unexpectedly “out of the office.”
Not surprisingly, after I had my luxurious lunch, had received a mini reading for myself and replenished my water bottle, I attracted LOTS of people, some of who did get a reading and others who I am considering partnering with to help other men and women! The best part? They gotAL of me. Not the over-giving Diana who was exhausted. The full, sparkly Goddess version of me, which is where I do my best work and have the most fun!
It all comes back to you. You can have what you really want!
I also remembered my intention: I choose to only attract people who I am meant to serve. I got exactly what I asked for. And I truly believe that the reason why was that I didn’t let my mind, any fears or other people’s opinions or beliefs override my own inner wisdom.
I believe you can have what you really want and are willing to commit 100% to also. It takes trust, practice, with, yes. But if you can stay in the middle, which is knowing where you need to activate (turn up your masculine) and where you need to simply hold space and let it be (turn up your feminine), life can be pretty sweet!
Q: What is one thing that you are taking away from the story? Share with me by leaving a comment!
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Today, I take your questions from the community.
Q:”Diana, I had a dream about my ex and getting married. It’s definitely a sign from my intuition that I call him and re-connect, right?”
I love this question and it’s very normal to dream about your ex and wonder what it means and what you should do about it.
Especially if you are recently out of a break-up with this person, it can feel validating or confusing depending on what the dream is!
A: Will calling him move you closer where you want to be or further away? Sometimes our subconscious just needs to work something out. It doesn’t always mean we need to leap to conclusions or take the dreams literally. If you ask your intuition and sit quietly with the possibility of contacting them, you’ll get a definite answer to the first question I posed and then you can respond from a grounded place or find that you can simply let it go.
Now over to you:
Q: Have you ever dreamt of an ex and did you ever follow that nudge to reach back out? What advice would you have? Share by leaving a comment on the blog!
PS: If your ex keeps coming up, it may be for a reason! Click here to book a private reading and get some clarity!
I was speaking with a good friend the other day about the progression of being single, to dating again, to being in a relationship, getting engaged/making a commitment and one of the things I feel like no one really talks about is the death of your single self.
That transition from being with yourself only… to being with yourself and another person.
From complete and total independence…to interdependence.
There is a mourning that may need to happen in that transition that I feel gets ignored.
A death of one identity as the new one takes shape and yo begin to navigate yourself in it, someone else!
And this isn’t just with your ‘relationship’ status.
It could be with your job.
Or your place of residence.
It seems everyone I speak with these days is gong through some kind of death/rebirth!
It’s beautiful, it can feel messy and it will be so much more impactful if you allow yourself all the feelings that arise when going from one stage to the next.
As you’ve probably guessed by now, I don’t necessarily have a neat and tidy 5-steps to mourn your single self post for you today.
Today is about simply opening up the conversation with yourself and exploring:
- Where do you feel like you are transitioning in your life?
- What feelings arise when you imagine releasing one identity to birth another?
- What comes up for you around your current relationships and what do you fear you will lose if you merge deeper with another?
Deep questions, yes!
I’m curious to see who actually pulls out the journal-if you are one of the brave ones, hit reply nd let me know one gem that comes up for you!
ps: Want to take a love journey with me? Doors are officially open for 14 Days to Amplify Your Love Energy! It’s not too late to join us. Go here to sign up and I’ll make sure we get you all the things you need to hop in!