this 1 question influences everything…

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Are you making decisions from fear…or love?

This question came up in an impromptu FB live I did on Sunday in response to the pandemic hysteria but, it can also be applied to anything.

When it comes to relationships, so often we make decisions from fear.

What if I’m not enough?

What if it’s too late?

What if they hurt me again?

What if it (dating, etc) doesn’t work?

But what would happen instead if we came from love?

What if I’m already good enough?

What if my timing is perfect?

What if I’m able to love myself no matter what happens?

What if it turns out to be the best thing ever?

The easiest way I know to tell the difference between fear and love is….

Click here to listen to the short audio from the FB live:

Tune in and I’d love to hear your thoughts!

it’s getting serious….

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Happy Wed!

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone and the energy is going, you’re excited and nervous…and you wonder, OMG where is this going?

How do I even approach this?

Do they want to get serious with me? 

You don’t want to outright ask because it’s confronting…kinda of like the “we need to talk” jargon feels, right?

But if you do want to go to the next level with someone, there are questions you can ask them (and yourself) to make sure the path is clear.

Click below to listen to the top 3

magical March!

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Happy Wednesday! It’s a powerful month filled with possibility and because of mercury retrograde (a time when communication, travel and people from the past come up to remind you to slow down, review what’s important to you and move forward with clarity), and I wanted to share an intuitive goddess message for each week this month!

My good friend Helena Hart asked me to do this for her community, so today I’m sharing the full video with you! Watch below!

 

when in doubt, just dance…plus a gift!

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I was feeling really “off” today. Like emotional, weepy and just super triggered by the smallest little things.

Have you ever felt like that?

Here are two things I do that can help you:

I find that when I’m in that space, I’m usually in my head. And I’m usually stuck in a silly loop and isolate myself.

Worried about what hasn’t happened yet or could happen.

Or obsessing about what has already happened.

1) And if you’ve been feeling off too, one thing that always helps me is to move my body.

I’m a dancer by nature so I know that when I turn on some tunes and close my eyes and just allow my body to move exactly the way it wants to, I feel better.

Things become more clear.

All that frustration, anger, insecurity, whatever…I just give it to the dance. 

I purposely don’t dance in a room with mirrors because it’s not about what your body looks like. It’s about bringing you home to yourself again.

2) Another thing I do is force myself to reach out to friends.
I actually reached out to two close people in my life and let them support me while I was feeling really vulnerable and emotional. 

Giving up the lone-wolf thing where you have to do it all yourself can be really really hard.

I grew up in a family where self-sufficiency was prized (can you relate?) so I’ve had to learn how to be vulnerable.

But the days of going at it alone are so over for me.

The blessings I’ve created and welcomed into my life and that I’ve seen with my Goddess on Fire VIP 10 month clients and others all point to the same thing:

We thrive on CONNECTION.

Feeling connected to your Purpose.

To your heart.

To your community.

And to your Soul.

So…I’m excited to announce that I’ve created a Society called the Empowered Goddess Society! 

 

It kicks off next year and as a gift for being in my online community, I would love to gift you a trial month so you can experience it in December! <3 

Click here to learn more and join me + other kick-ass Goddesses!

And remember: when in doubt, just dance.

Here’s one of my favorite tunes for you in case you’re feeling the vibe right. now.