want to break free once and for all? stop using this word!

It could be internally or externally.

When you are going through a transition or a shift, whether it’s personal or professional, it’s natural to experience feelings of insecurity, fear, indecision and joy all wrapped into one. 

After all, when you leave behind what you’ve always known to embark on a new path, a new way of BE-ing, a period of adjustment is in order.

But, especially among the highly-conscious, sensitive-to-energy folks like you and I, there is one word that can (at least in my personal opinion) block you from opening up to the full potential of your new chapter change.

That word?

How many times have you heard someone share their intention with you or maybe you’ve even included it in a statement of intent/mantra or repetitive thought yourself.

“I just want to feel or be comfortable.”

“I want X experience to be peaceful, easy and comfortable.”

“I just want to feel comfortable when I go on dates.”

You’ve shot yourself energetically in the foot right there.

Because let’s face it.

You are a powerful be-ing.

The words you say hold energy and vibration behind them.

Golden Nugget:

Very often you don’t get exactly what you ask for. 99% of the time, you get what your subconscious is programmed to believe is possible.

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And if you are using the word comfortable, here’s my take on it:

1. If you had the intentions above and you acted in full alignment with it (no couch-sitting!), you would probably feel peaceful, you will probably draw in some quality dates, and feel happy-ish.

Things may even feel easy..at least for awhile.

2. But you’ll most likely stay exactly where you are.

Where you probably are right now.


You’re Different

But if you’re reading this, I have a feeling you don’t just want comfortable. You don’t just want “okay.” 

You want extra-ordinary relationships, sparkly energy and the whole shebang!  

You probably know that there is something more for you. 

There’s something you’re not fully stepping into. 

Maybe because of what someone told you growing up, maybe because of a fear of failure or even more common, a fear and expectation of actually having the love you seek and what could come with that! 

You have to move past that if you want a different result in your life.

3. When you’re living your Purpose, when you are acting from your Goddess/God space, and you are expanding and growing, it is rarely comfortable! 

It’s downright uncomfortable, painful and Ego-shattering. 

(I know, I made it sound very not fun!) 

The pain is the Ego dying and the Truth being brought to the surface so you can make a different choice.

Want some help so you stop going at it alone?

I’d love to support you and help you feel confident navigating the shifts coming up for you to break free once and for all.

Go here to learn more:

your July goddess guidance video’s up!

Happy July!

Are you ready for some new energy?

I love that today’s newsletter falls on July 1, the first day of a pivotal, liberating month.

If you are new to my community, welcome! I’m so glad you are here.

I’ve put together a video with the overview of what you can expect this month and I decided to experiment!

Usually when I do these, I pull cards ahead of time and interpret them ahead of time.

This month, I pulled them…but did not turn them over until I made the video!

So you get to see real-time channeling and I love being surprised by Spirit!

It’s a great month for relationships and the 3 key words are:

  • Independence
  • Rebirth
  • Regeneration

Watch it below and after you do, please leave a comment-I’d love to hear what you think!

3 tips to be a love magnet this summer!

Whenever there is a change of season, it’s a great opportunity to reflect on what’s important to you and where you want to go next.

If love is on your brain, and you are desiring deeper connections and intimacy with the relationships in your life (or wanting to call one in), you’ll love today’s video!

I share 3 tips you can implement to be a love magnet this summer!

Go here to watch and check it out.

Q: Which one of these tips will you implement this week? Share below!

ps: Would you like some deeper support this summer? Let’s 
schedule a complimentary consultation call to learn more about how I can help you!

are you ready to stop ‘effort-ing’ so much?

Awhile back I was listening to the fabulous Kyle Cease riff on this idea of less effort, time and other gems.

But what struck me the most was when he shared how as a society we have gotten so addicted to filling our minds and our schedules with meaningless activities.

Basically ‘fillers’ so we don’t have to be still and actually listen to the whispers of our heart.

Oh snap! Guilty…

Cue endless brain-cell killing episodes of Love is Blind on Netflix…

Taking it a step further, I invite you to consider this-where do you mindlessly fill your time and schedule with these “fillers?”

When it comes to relationships, a big complaint I hear from both men and women is…

 “I’m not getting what I need from them (partner/lover, etc). How can I get them to give me more and pay more attention to me?”

A: Sure, naturally I want to share with you….shift your focus away from what you’re not receiving and focus on what you are, but even deeper than that…

<drumroll please>

Be a safe space to receive…

This is from Kyle Cease-I can’t take credit for it but it’s brilliant.

The more you grasp and cling to a particular thing, anything really, the faster it goes away.

Because you’re not a safe place to come to when you’re grasping and needy.

Instead, be a safe space to receive…some ways to be that?

  • Practice exceptional self-care. 

You can’t expect someone to give you what you aren’t willing to give yourself.

  • Be ruthless around how you use your time.

Go back to the fillers question-how could eliminating just one of your fillers free up blank space in your head, your heart, your day? 

Time is the only thing you can never get back, so if you’re busy filling it with crap so you don’t have to be still, there is no space to receive anything…

  • Discipline yourself to wait for an answer when it’s time vs. going after immediate anxiety-provoked gratification.

If you have a question, let it linger. Meditate on it. Let it go. Trust that when you’re meant to know, you will!

Q: Which one of these “receiver” tips will you implement this week? Share with me in the comments!

ps: Want to slow your roll? Check out my popular guided meditations in the store! 

on dating multiple people-good idea or not?

Have you ever had friends or even a coach tell you to date more than one person at the same time?

If you tend to be someone who is a one-person-kinda-goddess, this dating tip can feel weird or off-putting.

But when you understand the right way to do it, it can actually help you increase your chances of attracting a quality relationship. 

Without feeling icky or inauthentic, which is key!

Watch here or prefer to read? Scroll down!

1. Stay objective

Dating multiple people at once helps you get to know whether or not you have compatible values, relationship goals and how you feel about yourself when you are with them…without getting so emotionally attached to one before you know who they actually are!

Now, notice I said dating multiple people, not sleeping with multiple people.

In this sense, dating meaning going out, having conversations and getting to know each other.

2. Commit for the right reasons

Putting all your energy into one person or sleeping with someone too early before you know where they stand in relation to what you truly want can muddy the waters and make you attach prematurely and for the wrong reasons.

Getting to know multiple people can help you sift through what you truly want and make sure you are moving towards a shared goal together. And if it’s not right, it’s easier to move on! 

3. Honesty is key.

Until you have an exclusive arrangement (which is a conversation you both have with each other), you are not obligated to share that you are seeing other people. Particularly if you are not being physically intimate with anyone.

However, if you want to disclose that, that is totally up to you. If asked, and you want to say something, you could say, “I’m getting to know a few people right now and when exclusivity is discussed with anyone, of course that will change things.”

The more you can follow these 3 principles, the more you can increase your chances of picking the right person to move forward with!

Q: Which principle spoke to you the most? Share by leaving a comment here and make sure you grab your free gift: 7 Goddess Secrets to Up Your Confidence Now! www.dianadorell.com

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