5 self-love mantras

How was your holiday?

I’ve been spending it with my dad in Houston, Texas watching re-runs on Netflix (he just recently discovered its amazingness) and connecting.

I’m not sure about you, but I’ve found that this week after Xmas in the States has me in this in-between space of releasing and purging….and taking inspired action towards what I’m creating next year.

It’s like one minute I want to create and the next, I simply want to retreat.

This push-pull energy used to frustrate and confuse me until I was able to truly tap into the greater message as we close out the year.

credit: peek-photography.nyc

credit: peek-photography.nyc

Your 2015 gift + a simple request (chance to win a FREE oracle card deck!):

The message came to me in the form of 5 self-love mantras that I’d love to offer you this week (see below).

Mantras to help you move through releasing whatever it is that is leaving your life…and mantras to help you find the strength and the courage to take the next right actions that present themselves to you to move forward. Use them by saying them aloud, writing them down daily in your journal and most of all, infusing them with your emotion and intent. That’s when the magic can happen!

1) Mantras;

“I am willing to let go what wants to go…and let in what is meant to come in.”

“I am exactly where I need to be and all is well in my world.”

“I consciously forgive myself and anyone who is pulling on my energy. I choose to be free.”

“I accept love in whatever form it presents itself and let love pour out in massive quantities! I AM love!”

“I am enough. I am enough. I AM enough.”

 

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i’m spiritual but he’s not. will it last? find out!

A question I’ve just recently been asked is, “Can two people with different spiritual beliefs stay together for the long haul?”

More specifically, what happens when one person is on the spiritual path and one is not?

Is the relationship or friendship doomed?

It’s a great question! Let’s look at it from 3 key areas.

 

Step 1: Know what your deal breakers are for your beliefs/spirituality and pick your partners accordingly!

First off, it’s important to know what your relationship or friendship deal breakers are.

The things in a relationship (platonic or intimate) that you are unwilling to compromise on.

And then use that as a filter for who you allow in your inner circles.

Is it important to you that your best friend or life partner share the exact same beliefs and practice as you?

Example: I go to church twice a week, so so should they. I believe in Angels, so should they.

Or is having just a complementary, open-minded approach to life enough?

Example: They know I love Angels, and while they don’t pull Angel cards with me, they respect that I channel them and we practice gratitude daily before we go to sleep.

Knowing what you truly need in a partnership (or even a friendship) and communicating that can affect the longevity of the relationship because you are being true to yourself from the get-go.

 

Step 2: Identify if you are tolerating or compromising (an example)

If you’ve communicated how much it means to you that your man comes to a spiritual workshop with you at least once every 3 months and every time you bring it up, he’s turning on the T.V and tuning you out (and you don’t say anything), that is tolerating.

Over time, tolerating can turn to resentment and that can lead to leading separate lives and possibly, a permanent separation.

If on the other hand, you have had the same conversation and your man comes back with, “Honey, I know how much having me go with you makes you happy, but an important game is on the same day as the workshop you want to attend. Can you pick another date for us to go next month?” that is compromising.

It’s not about always getting what you want when you want it. It’s when both parties are staying true to themselves and also consciously tuning into the needs and desires of their partner to have a win: win.

Make sense?

 

Step 3: Listen to your intuition

As always, the question of “will it last?” depends on (1) how true each person is being to themselves (2) how that gets communicated in the relationship and (3) ultimately, if you want to stay or not! No one is making you stay! You deserve to be happy.

There are different ways to “be on the spiritual path” and if you are fulfilled in all your core areas but spirituality, ask your intuition if you can get creative with seeing another way you can share spiritual principles with each other than the obvious.

I used the example of sharing something you’re grateful for with each other everyday, which is a spiritual concept without using spiritual jargon like “meditation, chakras or Angels.”

Find yours.

Or if you are both so divided that you find yourself resenting your partner, ask your intuition if it’s time to head your own separate ways.

You may have outgrown the relationship or it may have served its purpose.

And then you can take the steps to heal and move forward if need be.

Either way, listen and act from a space of loving yourself and the rest of the details tend to figure themselves out!

 

credit: peek-photography.nyc

credit: peek-photography.nyc

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you don’t have to know what’s next but you must master this…

I was speaking with a girlfriend the other night and she was sharing with me how for the first time in her life, she had no clue what was next for her.

Have you ever felt like that before?

: general low-level frustration

:: a bit of anxiety because you’re so used to having a crystal clear vision, taking action on it and feeling powerful and on-track….. and

:: a strange “what’s next?” feeling because all of a sudden, it’s not so black and white anymore?

You’re in a gray watercolor and you’re not sure how to swim out or even where you’d swim to.

I’ve been there many times, both in my professional life and personal one.

You accomplish everything on your “goal” list and then it’s like…okay, is that all there is?

Do I make another list of goals? A bigger more exciting one? Or do I ditch the list? Am I bad for not making a list? Maybe I should be doing more, wanting more, is there something wrong with me? OMG!!!!!

It can be a mental merry-go-round, right?

What I realized:

It’s not always about knowing what’s next. It’s about being okay with sitting in the stillness and accepting it. TWEET THAT.

And I don’t know about you, but for me, being still can feel torturous.

I’m a dancer afterall! We want to move move move!

But be still internally we must if we are ever to experience a true breakthrough.

Like a little seedling, slowing growing up towards the light.

Over-watering it can kill this delicate bud.

Under-watering it can shrivel it.

But just letting it be there.

Letting it sit there and loving it for where it is.

That’s huge.

So, that’s my short but powerful offering for you this week. Said a few different ways:

  1. Stop avoiding the stillness. Listen to what it has to share with you.
  2. Stop making yourself ‘wrong’ for not having a clear plan on what’s next. Be here. Now. It’s enough.
  3. Accept the void of what is to be prepared for what is coming.

Which statement above resonates with you this week? #1, 2 or 3? Let me know in the comments and take it and make it yours!

credit: peek-photography.nyc

credit: peek-photography.nyc

 

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what to do when your dream lands in your lap and your gut isn’t 100% sold

Your dream job comes to you.

A relationship you’re in is about to go to the next level…it’s getting serious!

You’re getting recognition and media invitations for the work you’ve been doing.

It’s finally here….

Only your intuition and your gut isn’t 100% sold on the idea.

What? your logical mind says.

Why don’t you want this?

This is what you’ve been dreaming out/whining about/working towards for-ever.

So, what should you do when this situation comes up?

I’ve got you covered.

In this video you will learn:

    • the real reason why your gut isn’t on board with your dream
    • the one thing you must get clear on before you say “Yes!” or “No!” to the opportunity
    • you’ll get to hear a real-life example from my client files (anonymous) of how she handled this like a pro
    • and finally, you’ll be invited to share your insights and comments after you watch with me + our community!

Q: Have you ever been given an opportunity that seemed perfect on paper but your gut told you something was off? How did you handle it? Share with us in the comments below!

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do you have energy leaks? how to know + what to do to increase your happiness ASAP

Want more happiness?

Want that hot guy or gal to notice you?

Want to put something out into the world but feel held back?

A great place to start: Plug Up Your Energy Leaks!

Energy leaks are quite simply places in your life that hold stuck energy…maybe because you haven’t acted on something you know you need to act on, or it could be a statement where you told yourself one thing you’d do one thing but did another (or didn’t do anything at all!). Also, quite literally, it can be something as simple as having a leaky faucet (that is symbolic of opportunities escaping your life!)

The cost of energy leaks:

When we don’t plug up our energy leaks, you have less energy, you may have trouble sleeping and being mentally alert for the important things in your life. You may feel uninspired to finish a project that means a lot to you and from an energetic perspective, you limit the amount of love, opportunities  and financial prosperity that wants to come your way!

The good news is that once you identify where you may be leaking energy, you can take the steps to plug them up!

Some common and not so common examples of energy leaks my clients have shared with me and some easy fixes:

  • Not paying a bill or invoice on time (pay in full or create a payment plan to take care of it)
  • Keeping a sweater that you got as a gift that you never liked, but you feel guilty to give away (have a release ritual around it and give it away girlfriend!)
  • Texting an ex when you’re lonely and giving them hope that there is a chance of reconciliation when there isn’t. (Um, just say no. Delete their number.)
  • For entrepreneurs: Holding onto business partnerships or clients that are less than ideal (Have “the talk” or send that email…your cash flow will likely increase as you attract ideal people!)
  • Keeping old pens that don’t work (Throw them out!)
  • Broken clocks or watches that don’t work (really, broken anything-fix it or toss it!)
  • Telling a friend you would send them a resource and forgetting to (that’s an easy fix-send it already! you’ll feel so much better!)
  • Making an appointment with a friend/doctor/coach/family member and failing to show up or reschedule (Apologize and reschedule if you can!)

Do any of the above ring a bell?

What about the little energy leaks you tell yourself?

They are just as detrimental to your capacity to receive what you’re asking for. Some I hear:

  • Saying you’re working out today and when your i-phone reminder goes off, you blow it off and watch netflix because you “deserve a break.” (I’m guilty!)
  • Telling yourself you’re going to ask a friend for the money she owes you but when the moment comes, you don’t say anything because you don’t want to be “mean.”
  • Saying yes to going to an event that you know you’re never going to go to (but you don’t want to be seen as “not a team player”)

All this stuff costs us valuable energy.

But it’s all within your control, even though it may bring up some temporary anxiety, fear or insecurity.

Q: So…for this week’s challenge, I want you to tell me in the comments: What is one energy leak you’ve identified in your life?

What step are you going to take to plug it up?

Be brave Goddess!

This is your time to show yourself and the Universe that you’re serious about changing your life, one step at a time!

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