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A Great Mantra to Banish Fear!
Happy Tuesday!
I’m experimenting with sharing one of my favorite mantras with you each month to help you shift your energy in relationships.
Today, let’s talk about fear.
Whether you’re in a relationship or looking for one, fear can rear its head and can be paralysing when you think about making any kind of change (even if the change serves you)!
What if I said the wrong thing?
What if I make the wrong decision?
What if I’m just not good enough?
A great mantra to help shift fear is: “Perfect Love Now Casts Out Fear.”
I first saw this in the great book by Catherine Ponder, The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity and fell in love with it.
It’s anchored in the idea that Perfect Love (Divine Love) is stronger than Fear that is constructed from our human mind.
Where there is Divine Love there cannot be Fear at the same time, so essentially, you are choosing to stay in the vibe of love.
How to use it:
In quiet moments where you feel fears rising up in your chest, close your eyes, take a deep, cleansing breath and say the mantra above. Say it three times with deep feeling. Notice how your feel.
Will you play with this over th week and let me know how it goes? Hit reply or share a comment!
The more you can acknowledge the fear and quietly affirm that is has niko power over you, the easier it is to take action in your love life because you know you are safe.
And you are.
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It’s Time to Make Space (Dec Message)
Happy Tuesday and Last Month of 2022 to you!
We are officially rocking and rolling into December and I don’t know about you, but I have felt an excitement and rush of new energy-in many ways, it feels as if 2023 is already here.
If you’re reading this, chances are that you are very intuitive and may have already picked up on the new vibes of the upcoming cycle.
If I were to sum up December in one sentence it would be: Make Space for What Matters.
Plain and simple.
Check out this month’s Oracle video below!
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Want to Make Heads Turn? Try This! (Space Clearing Tool!)
Happy Tuesday!
Today’s question: “Diana, is there anything I can do to get guys to notice me more? I know that it’s important to come off as confident and I’m a bit shy. Do you have any spiritual tips that I can try to support me in this?”
A: Love this question! And yes. I’m a huge fan of integrating intuition with space clearing as I’ve found that sometimes shifting our outer world can trigger our subconscious/inner worlds. When the two worlds are in harmony, you experience manifestation and flow. And when it comes to confidence and getting noticed, the Fame corner’s where it’s at!
By the way, you can use these tips to get notice in ay area where you need to toot your own horn and feel bit self conscious!
Listen below to the audio tips!
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Being in Your Feminine is Not This… (Dating Advice)
“I have to be in my Feminine to attract love right, Diana? So, why do I have to get specific?”
First off, you don’t *have to* be in any energy, but if you want to attract a primarily Masculine energy centred man, being in your authentic Feminine creates polarity, that sexual and energetic ‘tension’ that creates a romantic dynamic.
Having said that, being in your feminine energy is never about being passive!
It truly drives me bananas when I overhear women encouraging each other to just “sit and wait” and not do anything at all to signal the Universe of their desires to be in partnership.
It’s a super delicate dance but here is one powerful thing you can certainly *do* while being in your Feminine energy that will actually help you attract romance without slipping into passivity…or over-giving.
- give yourself a weekly goal or intention. Notice I said give yourself (not the guy/girl). For example: Even though it felt weird at first, I asked one of my clients how many dates she would like to goon in the next week and she said “3” so she declared, wrote it down and even cleared out space in her week when she would be able to accommodate invitations. Within the next hour, a guy messaged her on Hinge and asked her out. They are going out this weekend. She was shocked. I was not. That is the power of declaring, being clear and creating space.
Let’s break that down.
Step 1: She had to get clear.
How many dates? If she had been wishy-washy or passive like –I don’t know- however many the Universe wants to send me??? you can just feel the energy, right? Even writing it is like taking a super lukewarm bath-it’s not sexy and it’s not magnetising. IN order to get clear, she had to do gut check and/or body check-yes, maybe her head said she wanted 5 dates, but when she checked in with her body, she realized she only had energy available for 3. Take the time to slow down and get clear.
Step 2: She wrote it down and made space in her schedule.
She actively participated in the creation of her desire. If she ha said 3 dates but refused to block off or identify time when she could actually meet those men, she may have still called in those dates, but she could have been unnecessarily stressed or felt like she was overbooking or compromising in another area. Q: What needs to be cleared or sifted so you can actually receive what you’re for?
Step 3: She stayed open to how and when.
Sure, the intention was for the week, but she let go and trusted that she would receive feedback from the Universe via people at the perfect time. And she did! She wasn’t trying to control when it happened or how it happened. So she was a safe receiving space for it to come to her!
The more you can actively practice these 3 baby steps, the easier it will be to stay constantly in your Feminine, without slipping into passivity and wondering why nothing it happening!
Q: Which of these 3 steps do you need to practice? Hit reply or leave me a comment on the blow and let me know!
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