do you self-sabotage? the key to success most people ignore

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“Worldly success and Divine transcendence are NEVER mutually exclusive.”

-Kelly Cutrone author of “If You Have To Cry, Go Outside (and other things your mother never taught you)”

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I used to believe that they were. I used to be afraid that if I ever met the right guy, he’d up and disappear as soon as I found out that I was psychic.

I’d fear that if I experienced a modicum of financial success that suddenly my intuitive gifts would vanish into thin air (poof!) or that I would be punished by the Gods (or Goddesses!)

And I’d fear that my insatiable desire to travel and see the world would ruin my potential to meet Mr. Right and have awesome friendships that filled me up.


brightandshinydiWhat really happened:

There were a few men I dated who thought what I did was weird but none of them actually left me because of my psychic gifts.  I have experienced financial success and my intuition is still intact and actually on fire (thank Goddess!). And I have traveled to several countries and all around the US and come back in one piece. While some of the jobs (and relationships) I had before I departed on my crazy adventures did occasionally end, it was never because of the travel. If anything, it brought me closer to the people in my life because it forced us both to prioritize communication and actually make time to reconnect!

I actually just manifested my VERY first trip to Florence, Italy for June (more on that next week) and the man I’m seeing is still with me and loving me for it, even though I’m leaving him alone for ten days to go off and be a crazy Dora the explorer. He says, “I’m glad it’s 10 days and not 3 months. You need to do this. Go. I love you.” That’s something I never thought would be possible through my old lens of how my partner “should” react. He’s teaching me a lot!


My point?

Your biggest fear realized will probably never come true.

Unless that’s your S.M.O (Spirit Modus of Operation).

But there is a HUGE difference between living your life in scarcity either-or land and  living your t life with a “BOTH” mentality. I can speak from experience because for the longest time I was in the former either/or and I know how hard life felt when I was in that space.

But when you live from BOTH, there’s a  huge difference in your happiness level. You have peace of mind. And yes, you naturally attract upgraded relationships and finances.

This “both” energy allows you to have a freakin LOVE affair with your life and the BEST love affairs that you read about in novels are never all one color are they?

They are passionate, wild, messy, inconvenient, heart-breaking at times and heart-opening at others.

They aren’t perfect.

But while you’re in the crazy love affair, it’s tantalizing, enjoyable, maddening all at once.

That’s what life is.

You deserve to have richness in the material world, whatever luxury your heart desires AND to be fully ALIVE and CONNECTED to your Spirit. To your Divine nature. On fire financially AND spiritually. On fire with your friendships or that hot man or woman in your life AND have a kick ass connection with your Spirit Guides.One without the other is just plain crazy-making in my opinion. It’s a life half-lived.



So, how do you make the transition from Either/OR to BOTH?


The answer?


You must learn how to develop, trust and act on your intuition. The most successful people I know trust their intuitive Knowing in EVERY area of their life AND they follow through on that intuitive guidance without question.If you’re new to intuition, it can be super hard to tell the difference between that wise voice and wishful thinking.

But it’s possible.



A tip:

Begin by noticing the repetitive nudges you get each day. Write them down in a notepad. Then ask yourself, “Is this true?” If it’s a green lights go feeling, you have your answer and you can choose to act on it or wait. If it’s not true, then move on. It’s not your intuition. Simple as that.


The bottom line: You CAN have both. It starts by simply believing that you can. Tweet that!


I believe in you.


YOUR Turn!


1. What is one book that has helped you believe in yourself?


2. Post your response using the “Leave a Comment” button down below right with the title or author!


3. Want to learn how to become an attraction magnet by simply using your Goddess-given intuition?


I’d love to show you how!


Extra Stuff For the Spirit-Driven Action-Taker


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To your success with buckets of love and sparkles,

xoxo

Diana


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3 Steps to Use Anger to Get What You Want (and manifest like a mo ‘fo!)

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Anger can be a powerful way to get what you want, provided it is channeled effectively and without harm to anyone!

In this video, Diana shares:

  • why “faking it till you make it” doesn’t always work
  • how she manifested a lucrative writing gig in less than 24 hours using anger!
  • 3 steps to channel your anger so it works FOR you instead of against you!

After you watch be sure to post a comment to the question below on the blog!

 

Take Action:

1. What is ONE action or step you can take that SCARES you that you know would help you get what you want?

2. Post it below and let’s support you!

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Want to be adored? Stop doing this!

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“How can I get my husband to appreciate me more?”

 

“I work so hard, and feel like no one seems to even notice.”

 

“Money comes into my life and it seems to go out just as fast? Why?”

 

Appreciation. Acknowledgement and Financial Abundance.

 

Those are the three biggest things that I hear people talking about CONSTANTLY.

 

How can we get more of THAT?

 

It’s easy.

 

Get a pen.

 

This is super deep.

 

Are you ready?

 

My million dollar answer. This is going to make me famous. And it’s going to make you rich and adored.

 

Here it is: Stop complaining. Not just out loud. But even inside your own head. Just stop it!

 

It’s so easy to say but between all the media negativity and outside energies, it can be really challenging to put into practice.

 

But if what you want is a better, richer life with a loving man (or woman) by your side plus the Benjamins in the bank, this is a non-negotiable spiritual law.

 

The Law (in my own words for you is):

 

“The strongest energy ALWAYS wins. We all have light and Shadow sides to our psyche, our thoughts and most importantly to the vibration we choose to put out into the world. Whichever energy is dominant is the one that will be responsible for manifesting whatever it is you see in your external reality.” Period.

 

Are you with me?

 

So, my invitation to you? Go on a COMPLAINING fast. For the next 24 hours. I double triple dare you!

 

This is harder than it appears. You’d be surprised how many times you may catch yourself complaining in passing and if you do complain, each time you catch yourself, I want you to:

 

1.STOP.

 

2. Close your eyes.

 

3. Breathe in and out and say “I now choose to stop cutting off my financial  flow” (Even if your finances are in awesome shape, there’s something really tangible that hits home when we use the word “financial flow.” But feel free to substitute your own power statement here so that it feels authentic for you and what you want to create more of.

 

Take Action: Your Spirit Challenge!

 

1. Will you be a part of our Spirit challenge this week?

If you are a YES, post a YES in the “Leave a Comment” section on here! I want to cheer you on!

 

2. Prizes!

After your 24 hours are complete (Deadline to post is Friday, April 12) , for anyone who posts a comment with 1-3 sentences of how the Complaining Challenge positively affected your day, I will be emailing a fun prize to!

Note: You MUST post with your full email address or I won’t know where to send your freebie!

 

3. If you want to learn more about getting respect and feeling adored and understood in your relationships with family, friends and lovers, I HIGHLY recommend my new audio course, Find Your Spirit, Find Yourself. Check it out here: www.URintuitive.com/realms2.html

 

Have a Blessed week and thank you so much for reading!

 

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Love,

Diana

Want to be famous? Try this!

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3 ways to spruce up your “Fame” space

 

Do you secretly want to be famous?

Want to be well-known in your field or be known as the one to go to for a particular thing?

I’m a huge fan of integrating intuition with space clearing as I’ve found that sometimes shifting our OUTER world can trigger our subconscious/inner worlds. When the two worlds are in harmony, you experience manifestation and flow.To keep it very simple, choose one room in your home that you’d like to work some “fame” energy on.

*When you walk in the room, look towards the back CENTER. That is your FAME/reputation space. 

NOTE: Before using any of these 3 suggestions, I always recommend a thorough de-cluttering and cleaning of the space for maximum benefit.

 

1. Use the colors orange, red and yellow/gold to decorate! Get creative!

The element of this space is FIRE, so you want to stay away from black, which represents WATER. And using logic, water puts out fire, so keep your black vases and desks away from this area.

 

2. Triangles and diamonds rule:

This area loved the shapes that have points like triangles, diamonds, etc. So, if you have a beautiful rug, angle it slightly or if you are on a budget, you can literally cut out triangle shapes on orange construction paper and tape them to the bottom of your favorite desk or chair legs!

 

3. Post your awards!

Have you been in the paper for anything? Do you have any certificates or diplomas? This is the place to hang them up and display them proudly!  For extra benefit, again, use firey or earth tones vs. black frames to capitalize on the fire elements.

Below is an example of one of my fame corners. Note the geometric shapes in the fabric and in the center is an amethyst, which is all about spiritual knowledge and healing from higher planes. Hindu Goddess and God, Lakshmi and Ganesh complete this cozy fame space. 

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Extra tip:

Ask yourself, “What do I want to be known for?” Cut out pictures, make a vision board or add photos or snippets that represent that to put in this area. Example: One lady I know wanted to be on TV, so she literally created a TV frame out of construction paper and put a picture of herself in the frame! Soon after, she landed her own show!

 

Your Turn!

1. Which do you want to be known for?

2. Do you have any ideas on how to spruce up your space?

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Have a fabulous week!

 

Love,

Diana

Do you undervalue yourself?

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“I worked for a menial’s hire,

Only to learn dismayed,

That any wage I had asked of Life,

Life would have willingly paid.”

-Jessie B Rittenhouse

 

I first read that quote in Napolean Hill’s Think and Grow Rich and everytime I re-read it, I find something new (great quotes do that!).

 

Have you ever done any of the following?

 

  • Said YES to a friend’s request for a favor even when you really wanted to say NO but you were too afraid?
  • Said YES to the first offer in a job that know you’re overqualified for but you are too afraid to counter-offer and command what you really know you’re worth?
  • Said YES to a lover or spouse and done something (or accepted some kind of behavior) that made you feel less than or frustrated afterwards?

 

If you say YES to any of those, chances are you are undervaluing yourself in some area of your life. (By the way, you’re not alone in this camp. The reason I wrote those examples is because I’ve said YES to all three in the past and I know how soul-sucking it can be!)

 

As it relates to your most important relationships, are there places where you see your energy being leaked simply because it’s too scary to rock the boat?

 

You’ll notice a common theme in all those 3 questions above: FEAR.

 

Fear of not being liked.

 

Fear of losing something or someone (sometimes before you even have it!)

 

Fear of confrontation and not being loved for who you are.

 

But I don’t want to focus on fear. You are a highly conscious, intuitive being (I love you!) and it’s so easy for us to focus on releasing fears, over-processing and putting energy into how to fix something when my opinion is this:

 

What if….

 

What if there was nothing for you to fix?

 

What if instead you chose to put your focus on ACCEPTANCE and truly loving yourself?

 

What if you felt afraid and did it anyway?

 

What’s the worst thing that could be possibly happen?

 

If we go back to the quote at the top, “…any wage I had asked of Life,

Life would have willingly paid.”  I have to ask you the scary question:

 

What kind of WAGE do you WANT?

 

And when you think about your most precious relationships, WAGE = The qualities of how you intend to be treated and treat others.

 

Example: Respected, harmonious communication, powerful, sexy…you get it, right?

 

See, most people want the Universe to give them a big ole HANDOUT because they are too lazy to take personal responsibility for their failure to say what it is that they WANT in the first place!

 

The ones like you reading this know better. If you know what you want and you ASK for it, you’re 100000X more likely to actually get it than the person who says, “I don’t know. You decide Universe. Whatever. (But if I don’t like it, I’ll blame you!)

 

(You can tell this subject gets me riled up!)

 

Take Action: Your Turn!

 

So, I’m curious.

 

1) What is YOUR desired relationship wage?

 

2) If you’re brave, post your top 3 adjectives that describe how you intend to be treated/treat others using the leave a comment at the bottom of this post.

 

3) I love you (that’s not an action, but I just wanted to remind you of that!)

 

ps:

If you want to DRAMATICALLY increase your chances of being respected, heard and have relationships with the people in your life that people will envy, I’d LOVE to have you in my brand-new class “What’s My Spirit Realm: How to Rock Your Relationships and Become a Master Communicator!” starting next week!

 

Check it out here:

Have a fabulous rest of your week/start to SPRING and I look forward to reading your “Relationship Wage” adjectives!

 

Love and Blessings,

 

Diana

 

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