​Do any of these feel like YOU or someone you know?

1. Maybe you’ve been out of the dating game for awhile and are ready to get back out there but you have no clue what you’re doing.

2. Or maybe you’ve taken your friends’ advice, created a Match.com profile and are about to give up.

​3. Or finally, maybe you’re IN a relationship where you feel stuck in a ‘rut’ and you aren’t sure what to do.

​If you said YES to any of the above, you’re not alone sister! I’ve been in all three scenarios and one thing that has really helped me is to find what I call your “Five-Star Scene.”

You may have heard Law of Attraction stuff before, about being conscious of the energy you put out because that’s what you get back. The “Five-Star Scene” exercise can help you get in the VIBES of that love that you seek. And the coolest part? It requires you to have FUN.

​(I don’t know about you, but as conscious as I am, sitting still in one place OM-ing has never sounded like fun, so this is particularly helpful if you tend to get in your head or want something to DO.)

​I made this video short and sweet because I know you’re busy, but do me a favor ok?

​After you watch the video, post your Five Star Scene answer below under the “Leave a Comment” section! It’s amazing what happens when we start declaring it. Group synergy is amazing!

Go here:

Reminder: What’s YOUR Five-Star Scene?

​Leave a comment below (right) and share this video with your friends! I can’t wait to see how your week goes when you add this baby in!

Love,
Diana

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Want to know the secret to receiving more compliments, unexpected gifts and yes, more attention from the opposite sex?The best part? It costs nothing and once you practice it enough, it will be become second nature.

I want to share it because it can also help you dramatically improve how you feel about yourself and consequently, increase the amount of positive attention and gifts you receive (sometimes from out of the blue, perfect strangers!)

 

Years ago, I tried it on my banker in California (shhh, don’t tell him!) and I actually was able to get a lot of annoying bank charges removed on my account and I think I said one sentence. That same day, I made sure I used the secret while walking on the street back to my house and even though I was wearing my ratty jeans and a tank top, I had more men staring and smiling at me than I thought was possible. (You know that feeling when you swear they must be staring at someone behind you so you try to be all cool, but then you realize, WOW, they really ARE staring at me?!) But the ultimate was when I used the secret and I got a phone call from a man that I was thinking about and obsessing when he was going to call me and voila, he called!

 

Now, of course everyone is different, but that’s just the tip of what is possible if you commit to using this secret.

 

The Secret: The Pleasure Vibe

There’s two parts to this secret. Part 1 is about YOU. Part 2 is about other people.

 

How it works:

Part 1 is about taking time to PLEASURE yourself every single day.NOTE: Now, to be clear, I’m not just talking about physical pleasure aka get out your vibrator, have crazy quickie sex etc, but that’s certainly one way to go about it. Pleasure is about any activity that activates your senses and is a personal ritual that you do for YOU.

 

This could be: reading a book in the park, taking a bubble bath, shopping at that vintage boutique you say you’re going to go to but never do, you get the picture. It’s non-negotiable time that is simply existing to pleasure and delight you. And you must do it EVERY DAY. It need not cost any money or take up your entire afternoon but it’s something that fills your cup up. See, when we take the time to consciously insert PLEASURE into our day, it actually sends a calming vibration to the brain and nervous system. It’s something to look forward to and while I’m not a scientist or a doctor, I know when I engage in it, my heart rate goes down, I feel lighter, saner and I come up with my most brilliant ideas. Because when you’re in pleasure or anticipating it, your energy is OPEN. It’s excited and BRIGHT. And that’s the SAME energy that attracts a man (or woman) worthy of your time.

 

So, what’s YOUR Pleasure activity? Write it down _____________________ .(You can probably think of more than that can’t you? Write the others down too!)

 

Part 2 is about consciously conjuring up pleasure feeling with other people in your everyday environment.

 

Now I know that sounded all witchy (conjuring is such a cool word!) but it’s never about manipulation. At all. It’s about choosing what to focus on in others and subconsciously, yourself. Because let’s face it. We’re all narcissistic and anyone we meet is simply a reflection of ourselves, or a part of ourselves that we recognize somewhere from some time.

 

How it works: Whenever you engage with someone, whether eye contact or conversation, pick ONE area of their body to appreciate. Like REALLY appreciate. Take it in. Let it fill your entire body for that moment. If you’re new to this, start with one person/day to get used to it. Or that really freaks you out, you can start by admiring a plant or a tree or a dog (hey, it’s all energy!) Be VERY specific. See, once you start sending out the “appreciate” vibe, the other person or thing 🙂 feels it and you will start to get that mirrored back to you. Mirrored back appreciation. Does it get any better than that?

 

An example from the bank in California years ago  (I can’t believe I’m sharing this!)

He was not that handsome. (I know, I’m direct.) He was a bit overweight and his shirt was kind of coming out of the side of his pants because it was too small. But I had picked him as my “pleasure” example to test the theory.

 

“So, what brings you here today, Diana?” He smiles really big.

 

“So, it seems that I have some charges on my account and I think they are overdrafts. Could you take a look and see if there’s anything you could do about that?”

 

“Uh, of course! Hang on just a minute while I pull up your account.”

 

<NOW>

 

Okay so now I consciously started to focus on one attribute which was his broad shoulders. They were very strong and I just kind of took them in. Mind you, I wasn’t staring at them. I just took a long glance and then kept appreciating them in my minds’ eye (I know, it sounds a bit strange but it’s what it takes!). Very strong. Solid. I felt my body tingle a bit. And I was smiling. At my purse.

 

And then I look up.

 

And he’s seriously grinning from ear to ear. His cheeks flush red and his fingers start stumbling on the keys.

 

“Uh, I’ll be right back.”

 

(Hmmm I wonder if he thinks I’m crazy? I thought)

 

A few minutes later, he returns and says, “I just spoke to my manager and he never reverses overdrafts, but he reversed all of yours. (He smiles goofily even bigger!) Is there anything else I can help you with? Would you like some coffee? Water for the road?”

 

(Oh my Goddess, it worked!)

 

“No, thanks! I’m walking. But thank you SO much for all your help!”

 

And I left, grinning from ear to ear. And I took a candy. It was my pleasure prize.

 

The bottom line:

Pleasuring yourself  and appreciating pleasure in others=increased happiness and unexpected returns. CLICK HERE TO TWEET THAT!

 

 

Your Turn: Leave a Comment + SHARE!

 

1. What’s YOUR pleasure activity? Name one that we can all share with each other to get ideas:

 

2. What’s one place that you will try this exercise this week? A park? At the grocery store? Report back your findings!

 

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