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Bloody Fingernail!

A month or so ago, I went to the gym and managed to drop a weight on my middle finger. 

It hurt like nothing I’ve ever experienced before and to make a long story short, the new nail has been inching it’s way under the bloody now black layer.

I felt embarrassed getting a manicure the day of my wedding at the urging of my sister-in-law, but the guy that did it was compassionate and covered it with like 5 layers of red nail polish so no one could tell. 

After the polish came off, part of the old nail started to fall off ut not enough to make a dent… (fun picture) 

The point of this story: 

A new life is waiting for you underneath your old one.

You may be clawing and scratching for “it” to reveal itself but you can’t rush it.

It won’t be rushed.

There is something to be gained from long at the ugly, deformed, dying parts of ourselves, our lives, our relationships, our homes, or in my case, my middle finger (which still makes em chuckle that it’s that finger!) whatever seems to be in the throws of a creative catharsis. 

Can you accept it?

Can you honor it?

Can you let it show you where you may need to love yourself even more?

Embrace the transitions that may be happening right now, goddess.

Once it’s time for the new to reveal itself, you’ll be ready for it.

You won’t miss it. 

Sending you love!

Mini Oracle Message + Wedding Photos!

Happy Tuesday!

As we come into the home stretch of July, I felt guided to pull a few oracle cards for the week to help you integrate everything that may be bubbling up for you.

I also have been getting requests to show you some photos from my wedding this past weekend, so… see below!

It was a magical day and one of the spiritually perfect moments that happened was that at the exact time we were saying our vows to each other, two hummingbirds came out of nowhere and apparently started circling our heads!

This was significant to me because as I began walking with my father, I realized that I had forgotten to put in this hair clip that my grandpa had given me before he passed. I was wearing my grandmother’s necklace and I was kicking myself but hoping his Spirit would be there anyway. And my symbol for him is the hummingbird!!

Synchronicities really are all around us – sometimes they come when we least expect it and in a form we don’t recognize but we are truly always supported. 

Watch the Mini Oracle Message below: 

If You’re Gonna Break Dishes, Use a Garbage Liner! (Q+A Time!)

Happy Tuesday! 

Today, I take your Goddess questions from the community.

It’s officially Q+A time: “Diana, do you have any creative or spiritual tools that can help me let go of anger towards my ex?”

A: Oh, you betcha! Here are 4 things you can do…

  1. Break dishes ( just use a garbage liner!). Imagine all the anger going into the dishes and you can declare all the things you need to say to your ex and then ask that it will be offered and released to the Divine through the breaking of the dishes. 
  2. Break a coconut (learned this from Tosha Silver) – similar process as dishes – but you can break a coconut in a safe place. NOTE: Discard the coconut after and don’t use it for anything else! 
  3. Write a letter, voice it and burn it. Don’t hold back Goddess! Say it all – voice it in the mirror, imagining your ex is in front of you and burn it symbolically releasing the energy hold on you.
  4. Cut energetic cords! When we hold energy with another person, we form energetic ‘cords’ that looks like ropes to them and they us. Cord cutting is a process I describe in my book, The Dating Mirror: Trust Again, Love Again and while cords of Leo can never be cut, toxic ties can. This frees up your energy and also the other person if they are open to it!

All of these can assist you in moving energy with an ex or any situation, belief or person that you’re ready to move on from. 

Q: Which one of these will you play with this week? 

Let me know by leaving a comment and if you would like assistance in your specific situation, go here to book a coaching consultation or intuitive reading.