5 self-love mantras

How was your holiday?

I’ve been spending it with my dad in Houston, Texas watching re-runs on Netflix (he just recently discovered its amazingness) and connecting.

I’m not sure about you, but I’ve found that this week after Xmas in the States has me in this in-between space of releasing and purging….and taking inspired action towards what I’m creating next year.

It’s like one minute I want to create and the next, I simply want to retreat.

This push-pull energy used to frustrate and confuse me until I was able to truly tap into the greater message as we close out the year.

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credit: peek-photography.nyc

Your 2015 gift + a simple request (chance to win a FREE oracle card deck!):

The message came to me in the form of 5 self-love mantras that I’d love to offer you this week (see below).

Mantras to help you move through releasing whatever it is that is leaving your life…and mantras to help you find the strength and the courage to take the next right actions that present themselves to you to move forward. Use them by saying them aloud, writing them down daily in your journal and most of all, infusing them with your emotion and intent. That’s when the magic can happen!

1) Mantras;

“I am willing to let go what wants to go…and let in what is meant to come in.”

“I am exactly where I need to be and all is well in my world.”

“I consciously forgive myself and anyone who is pulling on my energy. I choose to be free.”

“I accept love in whatever form it presents itself and let love pour out in massive quantities! I AM love!”

“I am enough. I am enough. I AM enough.”

 

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It’s important to me that I put out content that you’re actually interested in reading and that is helping you move closer to yourself and your desires!

So, in the spirit of serving you at the Highest Level in 2016, I have 3 simple questions that I’d love your responses to!

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I just want to take a minute to say THANK YOU for being part of my online Goddess family and for showing up for yourself this year.

Do this before 2016…the easiest way to bring in a miracle

60cea576-3164-4e2a-b6f7-a372004875d8Confession: I’m writing this in my pajamas and fuzzy socks.

 

And my new soft hot pink hoodie.

 

It’s way overcast here in the desert and I finally surrendered to the quiet and darkness of winter here in the States.

 

I gave myself permission to meander through my morning with no set agenda.

 

To tune into what my body wanted and what pulls at my heart…and what doesn’t (even if it has been on my to-do list for the whole week).

 

It’s one of the first assignments I give my private VIP clients; we call it scheduling in non-negotiable “Goddess Flow” time.

 

It’s meant to restore your creative juices, rest your logical, overdriven brain and reconnect you to your spiritual center.

 

From that delicious space comes the feeling of what you want to create and pull in next to your life.

 

Your “vision.”

 

Most of us have been taught to do it backwards.

 

Write down to-do’s and tasks and goals….but the problem with that is that if it’s not connected to something you truly desire, like really really desire, it’s super easy to slack, come up with excuses to not stay the course when things get wobbly and basically, stay exactly where you are.

 

Reframe self-care:

 

Slowing down not just for indulgent pampering time, but reframing it to be a necessary preparation to birthing a desire is a totally different energy, isn’t it?

 

How would it feel to say, “I’m having Goddess flow time right now so that I can hear what steps I might take towards pulling in a new relationship….or a new client…or a new job, etc”

 

Suddenly that slow down time has a purpose, a bigger WHY.

 

It’s a powerful place to start manifesting and because the energy is so strong now, I don’t want you to wait until January to put this into place.

 

So I invite you to bring it into your life now.

 

Diana DorellThis week’s Soul action: Take out your calendar. Pick one block of time each day (or each week, it’s up to you!) where you will have “Flow” time. Open space.

 

To let your Soul breathe.

 

To actually tune into what your desires are, so your brilliant mind can help fill in the blanks of what you can do to birth them.

 

It could be 10 minutes, 1 hour or the whole day. Choose a starting point that feels easy and then build up.

 

It’s so easy to say, “I don’t have time to do ‘nothing,’ Diana! I have responsibilities!”

 

I hear you Goddess.

 

But I don’t buy it.

 

We all have responsibilities and we all have 24 hours in a day.

 

It comes down to this.

 

Do you want life to lead you and have you be at the mercy of your circumstances?

 

OR

 

Do you want to be a Goddess and co-create a fabulous life with Spirit that honors you and supports your dreams?

 

The choice is yours!

 

I’d write more, but I’m signing off to go to the bookstore and read magazines.

 

After all, it’s my Goddess flow time 🙂

 

Have a fabulous holiday however you choose to celebrate and we will talk soon, okay?

 

Love and Blessings,

Diana

PS: Looking for clarity? Click here to book a Soul reading for yourself!

i’m spiritual but he’s not. will it last? find out!

A question I’ve just recently been asked is, “Can two people with different spiritual beliefs stay together for the long haul?”

More specifically, what happens when one person is on the spiritual path and one is not?

Is the relationship or friendship doomed?

It’s a great question! Let’s look at it from 3 key areas.

 

Step 1: Know what your deal breakers are for your beliefs/spirituality and pick your partners accordingly!

First off, it’s important to know what your relationship or friendship deal breakers are.

The things in a relationship (platonic or intimate) that you are unwilling to compromise on.

And then use that as a filter for who you allow in your inner circles.

Is it important to you that your best friend or life partner share the exact same beliefs and practice as you?

Example: I go to church twice a week, so so should they. I believe in Angels, so should they.

Or is having just a complementary, open-minded approach to life enough?

Example: They know I love Angels, and while they don’t pull Angel cards with me, they respect that I channel them and we practice gratitude daily before we go to sleep.

Knowing what you truly need in a partnership (or even a friendship) and communicating that can affect the longevity of the relationship because you are being true to yourself from the get-go.

 

Step 2: Identify if you are tolerating or compromising (an example)

If you’ve communicated how much it means to you that your man comes to a spiritual workshop with you at least once every 3 months and every time you bring it up, he’s turning on the T.V and tuning you out (and you don’t say anything), that is tolerating.

Over time, tolerating can turn to resentment and that can lead to leading separate lives and possibly, a permanent separation.

If on the other hand, you have had the same conversation and your man comes back with, “Honey, I know how much having me go with you makes you happy, but an important game is on the same day as the workshop you want to attend. Can you pick another date for us to go next month?” that is compromising.

It’s not about always getting what you want when you want it. It’s when both parties are staying true to themselves and also consciously tuning into the needs and desires of their partner to have a win: win.

Make sense?

 

Step 3: Listen to your intuition

As always, the question of “will it last?” depends on (1) how true each person is being to themselves (2) how that gets communicated in the relationship and (3) ultimately, if you want to stay or not! No one is making you stay! You deserve to be happy.

There are different ways to “be on the spiritual path” and if you are fulfilled in all your core areas but spirituality, ask your intuition if you can get creative with seeing another way you can share spiritual principles with each other than the obvious.

I used the example of sharing something you’re grateful for with each other everyday, which is a spiritual concept without using spiritual jargon like “meditation, chakras or Angels.”

Find yours.

Or if you are both so divided that you find yourself resenting your partner, ask your intuition if it’s time to head your own separate ways.

You may have outgrown the relationship or it may have served its purpose.

And then you can take the steps to heal and move forward if need be.

Either way, listen and act from a space of loving yourself and the rest of the details tend to figure themselves out!

 

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credit: peek-photography.nyc

Q: Do you want to learn more about how you can open your heart to true love again?

I’m teaching a free online workshop “How to Let Go Of Your Love Blocks with the Romance Angels”  on the New Moon, Friday, December 11th @8pm EST.

Pop in your email below to opt-into this call.

Note: You will receive call details once you sign up below!

 

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it’s time to let go

Happy Tuesday and Happy December!

How are you feeling?

Have you been feeling that deep knowing inside of you that things in your life are about to change for the better?

Like everything you thought you knew about yourself is up for re-negotiation and revision?

If so, you’re right on schedule.

December’s energies are all about:

  • purging the past (especially with long-standing family-related issues)
  • self-love and self-compassion
  • receiving gifts (tangible or not) in exchange for stepping into your Truth and being bold in what you allow in and what you say buh-bye to.

Ring a bell?

In short: it’s time to let go.

Let go of control.

Let go of the need to have other people’s approval.

Let go of the mean thoughts that are not loving to yourself.

Let go. Let go. Let go.

Quick story: For the past few days, I’ve been home with a stomach flu. I had to cancel appointments, be still and simply allow myself to heal.

The stomach is all about letting go of the past (I mean…hello!) and needless to say, lying in bed forced me to call upon all the tools I share with you guys.

Calling on the Angels to help me feel supported.

Giving myself Reiki every morning and night to soften my belly and my mind.

Journaling like my life depended on it so I could shift my focus from the pain to the pen.

And most importantly, letting myself see the Truth about what’s important to me and what it’s time to let go of.

One of the biggest things that is important to me is to teach and to help you feel re-connected to yourself and your Truth, especially in relationships.

So…I’m offering 3 opportunities for us to connect in the next 2 weeks. (scroll down!)

On the letting go side, I found that stuff just kept coming up that I didn’t expect. I got really emotional.

In fact, it was pouring out so much that I even made a “Letting Go List”.  

Some of the things that ended up on there include:

:: letting go of weird decorative objects I was keeping in my home because they were gifted to me but that aren’t my style

:: letting go of making elaborate excuses to avoid saying “No” to invitations I have no desire accepting. (a graceful No, thank you is sufficient!)

:: letting go of guilt around setting boundaries around my time and space (especially with family)

:: letting go of engaging in disempowering conversations or listening to gossip (there are better ways to “bond with me!”)

:: letting go of one-way street relationships that leave me tired and feeling used.

This week’s invitation: Make a Letting Go List

What’s on yours? Take a pen and paper out and let your heart lead you.

When you’re done, say each one aloud and tear it up or burn it!

It’s time for you to free yourself.

Are you game? Hit reply and share one with me!

Let’s have fun! “One thing I let go of is…”

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3 Announcements: Mark Your Calendars!

The big let go for me business-wise this year is…letting go of my Blog Talk radio show starting January 1.

I have so much enjoyed being on air with some incredibly special guests, but all signs point within me to “let it go” and I’ve learned to listen to that still powerful voice inside when it comes up.

#1 This Thursday, Dec 3 “Tips to Heal Yourself During the Holidays”

@8pm EST

Cost: FREE

I will be bringing on my special guest this Thursday, my mentor, international healer and a truly spiritual teacher, Althea Gray. She is magical and you won’t want to miss her, so please mark your calendars. Please tune into the show here: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/dancinggoddess

#2 Next Friday, Dec 11 (New Moon!) “Letting go of Love Blocks with the Angels”

Cost: FREE tele-call with yours truly.

@8pm EST.

You don’t have to opt-in. Just write down this info to join me!

Attend by Phone:

Guest pin code: 908199#

Primary dial in number: (425) 440-5100

Secondary dial in number: (415) 633-4267

Full list of dial in Numbers:

http://InstantTeleseminar.com/Local/?eventid=77869731

Event Page:

http://iTeleseminar.com/77869731

#3 Would you like me to be your spiritual mentor or coach for 2016? Let’s find out if we’re a good fit!

I have just a handful of spots left to work with me privately in January and I’d love love love the opportunity to help you reach your true Soul potential next year.

To make sure we’re a perfect fit, I’d love to hop on the phone or Skype with you for a FREE 15-minute chat to discuss your goals and help you make the best decision for your life.

Please click here

Have a fantastic start to December and stay warm wherever you are in the world!

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credit: peek-photography.nyc

Can’t wait to connect with you in one (or ALL!) of the 3 events above.

Love and Angel Blessings,

Diana