Have You Ever Felt ‘Not Good Enough?’

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There are so many triggers today that can make us feel like we just don’t measure up.

Magazines.

Pictures and posts on social media.

Well-meaning friends and family opinions.

And a lot of times, when you scroll through for things to feel better about yourself, the phrase, “just love yourself, focus on loving yourself” will come up.

It’s a valid point bathos many of us are taught how to actually do that?

Self-love can seem like this daunting, huge place with a ton of entrances, but you aren’t even sure how to get to the crossroads to pick the right entrance!

So, if you’ve ever felt ‘not good enough,’ especially around relationships and dating, let me put your mind at ease.

Instead of going into overwhelm about how to love yourself and if you are doing it right, start with just one step.

Do this instead and you may find that you naturally begin loving yourself and walking through the door without having to force your way in:

Your thoughts create your reality (true story from the trenches!)

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Happy Tuesday!

We are smack in the middle of Mercury Retrograde, until June 22nd, a perfect time to: 

*revisit 

*review

*re-commit to what is most important to you. 

When it comes to relationships, it’s so easy to feel insecure. 

If you’ve been single for awhile and then get into partnership, this can bring up a lot of fears, even though it’s what you’ve said you wanted!

Have you ever felt just well…not good enough?

Doubting yourself and why someone is with you?

You are not alone AND you, my dear Goddess are so powerful. 

Your thoughts are powerful.

And you can use them to create, change and shape your reality.

I would love to share a story with you from the dating trenches. 

It’s about a woman I knew named Sandy (names and details have been changed for privacy).

What she discovered was so incredibly powerful and it applies to not just dating but all areas of your life where you feel a bit out of sync with yourself and the Universe. 

Click here to read it!

ps: Have you taken the love self-assessment yet? Click here!

Can You Truly Fall In Love Without Meeting In Person?

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Happy Tuesday! 

As we navigate dating in this “new norm” the question came up-like, can you really, truly fall in love with someone online without ever meeting in person? 

I actually remember being in my college dorm room messaging with some guy I had met in a chat room from AOL (I’m totally dating myself but oh well!) 🙂

And now looking back, I wonder-wow-was what I thought I felt real or was it all in my head? 

Today, with everything that has unfolded with the pandemic, using apps to date has become more and more common, but this question still prevails: is the love real? 

I was recently interviewed about this very subject by Elite Daily–check out the article here. 

When you finish reading, I invite you to share your thoughts with the community!