Is Ego bad? (Q+A time!)

Happy Tuesday! 

How was your Equinox?

Thank you so much to everyone who signed up for the Autumn Healing Meditation!

If you’d lie to get a copy of the recording to listen to and gain the energy benefits, you can go here and we will send it to you!

Today, I’m answering a question from our Goddess community.

Q: “Diana, I’ve been really working on my spiritual practice and trying to not take things personally in relationships. It’s not easy! One thing I wondered about – Ego bad? Where is the line between having a healthy Ego and an unhealthy one?

I love this question! Ego gets a really bad rap but really it has a very important purpose in our Lives!

Understanding this purpose can help you in all relationships. 

After you listen: 

Q: Do you listen to your Ego? Share with us in the comments!

A Simple Shift Can Open Up Your World

Happy Tuesday!

Did you ge a chance to see the gorgeous full moon this weekend? 

It was hauntingly beautiful and here in AZ we had almost every type of weather you can imagine over 48 hours.

Blinding, hot sun.

Monsoon rains and humidity to follow.

And last night, there was the whole thunder and lighting and wind shebang.

It was like the Earth was rolling through all her emotions!

Right now, there may be rumbles happening in your life too. In your relationships.

But any shake-ups are way-ups.

Where can you go about it differently? 

How can you see a new perspective? 

Who do you want to be and how can you embody that more? 

One question you an ask yourself when something confusing, weird or just plain out of nowhere comes into your orbit is… “What COULD this mean?”

This is a very simple tweak in language.

Most of us are taught to ask, “What DOES this mean?”

But when you change it to could, you tap into curiosity. Possibility. Non-linear thinking. 

New insides could resent themselves with could.

So this week, let’s keep it simple. 

Will you play with this question? 

What could he have meant by that text? 

What could I do if this situation? 

What could…

Wishing you a wonderful week! And if you’d like to step into more joyfully receiving, join me for EMBODY: 21 Days to Expand Your Capacity To Receive! 

The first lesson dropped yesterday so you won’t be behind and you can go at your own pace. 

Check it out. 

September Says ‘Slow Down Goddess’

You made it to September! 

I just put up our Autumn wreath on the front door, made pumpkin spice muffins (see below!)and have been in a decluttering and decorating frenzy.

Although the Fall equinox isn’t until later this month, once September rolls around, it’s like something in my brain clicks and it’s time for a chapter change. 

But despite my body’s internal nudges to go at warp speed around my home, the energies of September invite us all to: 

* slow down – re-evalute – is this something (or someone) you really want? What would serve you right now the most? 

* simmer – what have you already completed or come to terms with that you can enjoy and allow to grow or develop instead of trying a bazillion new things.

* sage your Soul and your home – (yes, I wanted a third ‘s’ word but seriously, this month, you may feel guided to do rituals to clean up your self-talk, your diet and clear out your home or work space with some sage, palo Santo or windex) What needs to go? What needs to be cleaned or removed? What can you eliminate? 

For more specifics on what this month has in store for you energetically, please watch the September Oracle Message below: 

And for those of you that are ready to retire a pattern of over-giving and step up your Feminine receiving energy, sign up for Embody: 21 Days to Expand Your Capacity to Receive Love (and really anything!).

Have a fantastic week and I look forward to connecting with you very soon. 

5 Signs to Leave a Relationship

Happy Tuesday! 

How was your weekend? 

Did you remember to do something special for yourself? 

It could be something simple like taking 10 min to just read a book you’ve been meaning to. Or to just breathe and bestill and stare at the ceiling fan to calm your brain!

It’s so important, Goddess.

Today’s Q+A circles around a breakup potential of a relationship: “Hey Diana, I’ve been in this relationship for not that long but all my friends tell me to break up with him. I feel like I’ve been in and out of so many relationships an I don’t want to throw in the towel, but things have felt so tough. How do you know for sure when it’s time to leave a relationship? Please help! Thank you in advance!”

This isn’t a black and white ind of answer, but if you’re in a situation where you’re not sure to consider leaving, here are 5 signs that it may bedtime to consider moving forward with the breakup.

It’s never easy to leave a relationship, even if you now in your heart it’s time. 

But watching out for these 5 signs can help you assess your situation to make the decision a bit more clear. 

Q: Which one of these signs sticks out to you the most? What advice would you give someone considering a breakup? 

Leave us a comment and let us know!

If You’re Gonna Break Dishes, Use a Garbage Liner! (Q+A Time!)

Happy Tuesday! 

Today, I take your Goddess questions from the community.

It’s officially Q+A time: “Diana, do you have any creative or spiritual tools that can help me let go of anger towards my ex?”

A: Oh, you betcha! Here are 4 things you can do…

  1. Break dishes ( just use a garbage liner!). Imagine all the anger going into the dishes and you can declare all the things you need to say to your ex and then ask that it will be offered and released to the Divine through the breaking of the dishes. 
  2. Break a coconut (learned this from Tosha Silver) – similar process as dishes – but you can break a coconut in a safe place. NOTE: Discard the coconut after and don’t use it for anything else! 
  3. Write a letter, voice it and burn it. Don’t hold back Goddess! Say it all – voice it in the mirror, imagining your ex is in front of you and burn it symbolically releasing the energy hold on you.
  4. Cut energetic cords! When we hold energy with another person, we form energetic ‘cords’ that looks like ropes to them and they us. Cord cutting is a process I describe in my book, The Dating Mirror: Trust Again, Love Again and while cords of Leo can never be cut, toxic ties can. This frees up your energy and also the other person if they are open to it!

All of these can assist you in moving energy with an ex or any situation, belief or person that you’re ready to move on from. 

Q: Which one of these will you play with this week? 

Let me know by leaving a comment and if you would like assistance in your specific situation, go here to book a coaching consultation or intuitive reading.