Happy Wed!

It’s Full Moon week (August 15) and one of the things that can come up especially around that time is dealing with mixed signals.

Emotions tend to heighten around full moons anyway, and if you’ve ever gone through that dance of having someone text you everyday…to hearing crickets, you know how frustrating it can be!

The advice I share in this week’s audio can be applied to any relationship in your life, not just romantic, so have a listen and allow yourself to feel everything that’s coming up to be released this week.

Listen to your inner guidance and know that it’s all going to be okay!

ps: I have a funny meme you’ll want to check out (check it out below)

pps: Have you ever wished you had a map for life? Something that helped guide you in making day-to-day decisions? Check out this (free) video workshop from my friend Colette Baron-Reid. It’s called Navigate Your Destiny with Oracle Cards and it gives you a step-by-step guide of how to use Oracle Cards to get guidance around your life questions and feel more confident about the choices you make each day.

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Q: Is jealousy ever healthy in a relationship? why or why not? 

Jealousy, if it is communicated in a playful way can be healthy-Example:  “I saw that waitress staring at you and it made me really jealous=you are so hot!” The key is making it light and playful. If you seriously believe that they are not doing anything to make it clear they are in a relationship then you have an issue with your partner around fidelity and that needs to be communicated.

3 ways that jealousy ruins a relationship:

1-It indicates a lack of trust in your partner. If you are constantly jealous, on some level you are saying to your partner, “I feel threatened and I don’t trust that you can reassure me.”

2-It breeds insecurity.If you’re feeling jealous all the time, your energy contracts and you are suddenly focused on the other person and what could go wrong vs what you appreciate about them and the relationship. They may start to pull away without realizing why.

3-What you focus on most is what you get more of.If you are focused on the negative then you will just recognize more of that and the Universe mirrors that back. Flip it and focus on trust and confidence within yourself around the relationship and you get more of that. What do you want to choose?

If you sense that jealousy could be ruining your relationship, first ask yourself if this is a one-time thing or if it’s a pervasive feeling and you never really trusted your partner from the beginning. Ask your intuition. It knows the truth. And consider having a heart to heart with your partner.

Q: Has jealousy been a problem in your relationship? How did you work through it? Leave a comment and are you new to the Goddess community?

ps: Do you want to be a LOVE magnet? A bit last minute, but I am hosting a free training on this very topic tomorrow night (Thursday) at 5pm PST. It’s recorded, so if you can’t make it live, no sweat! I’ll email you the replay. I don’t have a fancy sign up page for it-just click here to join me! 

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