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If You’re Gonna Break Dishes, Use a Garbage Liner! (Q+A Time!)

Happy Tuesday! 

Today, I take your Goddess questions from the community.

It’s officially Q+A time: “Diana, do you have any creative or spiritual tools that can help me let go of anger towards my ex?”

A: Oh, you betcha! Here are 4 things you can do…

  1. Break dishes ( just use a garbage liner!). Imagine all the anger going into the dishes and you can declare all the things you need to say to your ex and then ask that it will be offered and released to the Divine through the breaking of the dishes. 
  2. Break a coconut (learned this from Tosha Silver) – similar process as dishes – but you can break a coconut in a safe place. NOTE: Discard the coconut after and don’t use it for anything else! 
  3. Write a letter, voice it and burn it. Don’t hold back Goddess! Say it all – voice it in the mirror, imagining your ex is in front of you and burn it symbolically releasing the energy hold on you.
  4. Cut energetic cords! When we hold energy with another person, we form energetic ‘cords’ that looks like ropes to them and they us. Cord cutting is a process I describe in my book, The Dating Mirror: Trust Again, Love Again and while cords of Leo can never be cut, toxic ties can. This frees up your energy and also the other person if they are open to it!

All of these can assist you in moving energy with an ex or any situation, belief or person that you’re ready to move on from. 

Q: Which one of these will you play with this week? 

Let me know by leaving a comment and if you would like assistance in your specific situation, go here to book a coaching consultation or intuitive reading. 

How Past Lives Can Affect Your Love Life

Happy Tuesday! 

Have you ever taken a spontaneous road trip with a friend? 

I recently did to go see Tyler Henry, The Hollywood Medium, from the Netflix show, Life After Death. 

It was an incredible experience and we stayed in a gorgeous Old Hollywood hotel founded in 1957 by none other than Lucille all and Desi Arnez!

Pics below!

Super classy and definitely from another time. 

I felt so at home there and one of friends said, “It’s like you should have grown up during the ’40s and ’50s Diana!” 

I didn’t disagree! Ever since I ca remember, I’ve been obsessed with the clothes, the music, the vibe!

The whole trip felt like a bit of a time travel and it got me thinking about a conversation I had with a client about past lives and how they can affect our love life in the present. 

Have you ever felt there was an unconscious pattern that you keep playing out in relationships that isn’t seeing you but still feels like you can’t shake? 

It’s quite possible you could be reacting from a past life programming that is keeping you a bit stuck now. 

Signs unresolved past life issue could be at play: 

  • a feeling like you can’t move forward from an old relationship, despite every effort you make
  • repeating the pattern of dating the same guy with a different face (even though socially. you have done all the work to not do this!) 
  • feeling ‘stuck’ creatively, like you have hit some kind of invisible ceiling
  • and more! 

But how do you start to clear the past life issue? 

It all starts by identifying what keeps happening that you don’t want to repeat. 

And also asking – hey, what if any past lives do I need to be aware of that could be affecting this pattern? 

Journal on that for the next week – -nothing at al may come up at first, but be open to receiving nudges and signs and asking away!

And here’s the kicker – observing yourself without judgement. 

Getting a past life healing or reading can also be incredibly helpful!

This is something I dive into deeper with private clients if the energy calls for it – to help them get unstuck! 

Knowledge is power!

Q: What time periods are you naturally drawn to? Have you ever identified any patters that seem to connect to it?

I’d love to hear from you!

Have a blessed week!