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Is it Too Late for You? (The Ex Files-True Story)

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Happy Tuesday!

Have you ever had the thought, ‘it’s just too late for me?’

It’s too late to get married-there are no good men out there. 

It’s too late to follow my dreams-I’d have to go back to school.

It’s too late to (you fill in the blank!)

It’s so easy to listen to that comment in your head and put all these silly constraints on what’s possible for you to receive!

And really, what I have found in over a decade of this work, is that more often than not, anytime you begin sentence with it’s too late…it’s about control.

Not getting hurt.

Not feeling pain.

Not having to be rejected or judged.

It’s human nature.

I’ve been there too and today I wan to share a true story from my ex file about it. 

You ready? 

I had just turned 30 and had recently broken up with a guy we’ll call Mr. T.

I had read about an earthquake hitting his home town overseas via my personal news anchor aka my dad who sends me critical news in the form of two line emails (I don’t watch TV or read the news a lot and he worries that I’ll miss something!)

I was still hurting from the break-up – (I was supposed to go visit him overseas and we broke up the week before my flight…I know great timing, right?)

Thoughts like ‘it’s too late’ for me to tell him how I really feel because then he’ll think I’m whiny and desperate. 

It’s too late to show him I still care for him, even though it didn’t work out. 

Anyhow, when I saw the news, I hadn’t talk to Mr. T in a few months and I’m kind of embarrassed to admit that it took catastrophic event for me to get out of my own way.

Divine intervention ensued.

I was awoken at 2:30AM with this pulsating in my gut. I had been crying and was prompted to go to Facebook and lo and behold, he was online. Before my logical mind and Ego feminine pride could kick in, I just sent him a message. Very simple. 

“I love you. I’m so glad you’re alive and you’re okay.”

Tummy happy.

His reply?

“I love you too. Thank. I okay.” (His English wasn’t perfect but it was brilliantly authentic).

So freakin simple.

There was no talk of reconciliation. No awkward so “how are you faring since we’re not you know, a couple?” and certainly no fishing for details of each other’s dating lives.

It was just human to human.

Or Spirit to Spirit.

Love.

Real LOVE.

Attachment-free.

Expectation-free.

And best of all, that one simple action to override my pride and follow my intuition/instinct to let him know I cared (without any agenda for myself) kicked the ‘it’s too late’ excuse in the ass. 

Here’s the deal: TRUTH TELLING TIME

It’s NEVER too late to trust your intuition and follow through on what it’s telling you.

It’s NEVER too late to surrender your Ego and pride in the name of authenticity.

It’s NEVER too late to SHOW UP FULLY. Bruises. War wounds and all.

So, I ask you:

  1. “Where have you believed that it’s TOO LATE in your life?” (Go with your first instinct here. Note: It’s usually the one you’ve been avoiding the most)
  2. “What action however small could you take RIGHT NOW to flip the script?”
  3. Go do that. (And get off Facebook already unless that’s your action and then by all means, rock it sister!)

ps: If you’re wanting to bring in love, need to forgive yourself/move on from a love or just need to feel HAPPY and LIGHT, check out this love meditation, “Journey to Love” in the Goddess shop that I actually created right after I had that conversation with said ex! 

This is an Abundant and Beautiful Universe That Wants to Give to You – Are You Open to Receiving?

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Sometimes the gift can have strange packaging! 

Maybe that guy you had the great second date with ghosted you.

Or the job promotion you thought was in the bag never happened.

It can sometimes be hard to keep an abundance mindset when your current circumstances are less than ideal.

But that’s exactly the time when your spiritual tools come into play. 

When you are open to seeing everything you receive as a stepping stone to your personal growth…and ultimate fulfilment, it becomes less personal.

You can let go of turning it into a story about why the Universe hates you. 

And instead…

You get curious.

You look for the things that it’s teaching you about yourself and strengthens your commitment to what you DO want.

Does it always feel comfortable?

No.

Will you experience emotions like anger, annoyance and doubt?

Sure. 

But the muscle you’re building is the belief that everything you receive is there in service to your growth…not out to get you.

How would it feel to experiment with that belief this week?

What could you free yourself from?

Hit reply and share!

PS: If you’re ready to strengthen your self love muscle, you will love ’60 Seconds to Self Love!’ Check it out here. 

How Past Lives Can Affect Your Love Life

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Happy Tuesday! 

Have you ever taken a spontaneous road trip with a friend? 

I recently did to go see Tyler Henry, The Hollywood Medium, from the Netflix show, Life After Death. 

It was an incredible experience and we stayed in a gorgeous Old Hollywood hotel founded in 1957 by none other than Lucille all and Desi Arnez!

Pics below!

Super classy and definitely from another time. 

I felt so at home there and one of friends said, “It’s like you should have grown up during the ’40s and ’50s Diana!” 

I didn’t disagree! Ever since I ca remember, I’ve been obsessed with the clothes, the music, the vibe!

The whole trip felt like a bit of a time travel and it got me thinking about a conversation I had with a client about past lives and how they can affect our love life in the present. 

Have you ever felt there was an unconscious pattern that you keep playing out in relationships that isn’t seeing you but still feels like you can’t shake? 

It’s quite possible you could be reacting from a past life programming that is keeping you a bit stuck now. 

Signs unresolved past life issue could be at play: 

  • a feeling like you can’t move forward from an old relationship, despite every effort you make
  • repeating the pattern of dating the same guy with a different face (even though socially. you have done all the work to not do this!) 
  • feeling ‘stuck’ creatively, like you have hit some kind of invisible ceiling
  • and more! 

But how do you start to clear the past life issue? 

It all starts by identifying what keeps happening that you don’t want to repeat. 

And also asking – hey, what if any past lives do I need to be aware of that could be affecting this pattern? 

Journal on that for the next week – -nothing at al may come up at first, but be open to receiving nudges and signs and asking away!

And here’s the kicker – observing yourself without judgement. 

Getting a past life healing or reading can also be incredibly helpful!

This is something I dive into deeper with private clients if the energy calls for it – to help them get unstuck! 

Knowledge is power!

Q: What time periods are you naturally drawn to? Have you ever identified any patters that seem to connect to it?

I’d love to hear from you!

Have a blessed week! 

The Death of Your Single Self…

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Happy Tuesday!

I was speaking with a good friend the other day about the progression of being single, to dating again, to being in a relationship, getting engaged/making a commitment and one of the things I feel like no one really talks about is the death of your single self. 

That transition from being with yourself only… to being with yourself and another person. 

From complete and total independence…to interdependence.

There is a mourning that may need to happen in that transition that I feel gets ignored. 

A death of one identity as the new one takes shape and yo begin to navigate yourself in it, someone else!

And this isn’t just with your ‘relationship’ status.

It could be with your job. 

Or your place of residence.

It seems everyone I speak with these days is gong through some kind of death/rebirth!

It’s beautiful, it can feel messy and it will be so much more impactful if you allow yourself all the feelings that arise when going from one stage to the next.

As you’ve probably guessed by now, I don’t necessarily have a neat and tidy 5-steps to mourn your single self post for you today. 

Today is about simply opening up the conversation with yourself and exploring:

  1. Where do you feel like you are transitioning in your life?
  2. What feelings arise when you imagine releasing one identity to birth another? 
  3. What comes up for you around your current relationships and what do you fear you will lose if you merge deeper with another? 

Deep questions, yes!

I’m curious to see who actually pulls out the journal-if you are one of the brave ones, hit reply nd let me know one gem that comes up for you! 

ps: Want to take a love journey with me? Doors are officially open for 14 Days to Amplify Your Love Energy! It’s not too late to join us. Go here to sign up and I’ll make sure we get you all the things you need to hop in!