3 Signs He’s Commitment Material

Happy Tuesday! 

Today I take your questions:

Q: “Diana, I am ready to stop wasting my time with men that cannot seem to make a commitment or don’t want an exclusive relationship with me. How can I spot the guys that are worth going out with again so I don’t keep making the same mistake?” 

This is a great question and knowing these 3 signs upfront will save you so much time and heartache later. 

Ready to hear my answer? Watch below!

Q: Have you ever seen these signs or ignored them on dates? I’d love to hear from you!

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How Past Lives Can Affect Your Love Life

Happy Tuesday! 

Have you ever taken a spontaneous road trip with a friend? 

I recently did to go see Tyler Henry, The Hollywood Medium, from the Netflix show, Life After Death. 

It was an incredible experience and we stayed in a gorgeous Old Hollywood hotel founded in 1957 by none other than Lucille all and Desi Arnez!

Pics below!

Super classy and definitely from another time. 

I felt so at home there and one of friends said, “It’s like you should have grown up during the ’40s and ’50s Diana!” 

I didn’t disagree! Ever since I ca remember, I’ve been obsessed with the clothes, the music, the vibe!

The whole trip felt like a bit of a time travel and it got me thinking about a conversation I had with a client about past lives and how they can affect our love life in the present. 

Have you ever felt there was an unconscious pattern that you keep playing out in relationships that isn’t seeing you but still feels like you can’t shake? 

It’s quite possible you could be reacting from a past life programming that is keeping you a bit stuck now. 

Signs unresolved past life issue could be at play: 

  • a feeling like you can’t move forward from an old relationship, despite every effort you make
  • repeating the pattern of dating the same guy with a different face (even though socially. you have done all the work to not do this!) 
  • feeling ‘stuck’ creatively, like you have hit some kind of invisible ceiling
  • and more! 

But how do you start to clear the past life issue? 

It all starts by identifying what keeps happening that you don’t want to repeat. 

And also asking – hey, what if any past lives do I need to be aware of that could be affecting this pattern? 

Journal on that for the next week – -nothing at al may come up at first, but be open to receiving nudges and signs and asking away!

And here’s the kicker – observing yourself without judgement. 

Getting a past life healing or reading can also be incredibly helpful!

This is something I dive into deeper with private clients if the energy calls for it – to help them get unstuck! 

Knowledge is power!

Q: What time periods are you naturally drawn to? Have you ever identified any patters that seem to connect to it?

I’d love to hear from you!

Have a blessed week! 

If You Keep Dreaming About Your Ex…

Happy Tuesday!

Today, I take your questions from the community.

Q:”Diana, I had a dream about my ex and getting married. It’s definitely a sign from my intuition that I call him and re-connect, right?”

I love this question and it’s very normal to dream about your ex and wonder what it means and what you should do about it. 

Especially if you are recently out of a break-up with this person, it can feel validating or confusing depending on what the dream is! 

My response? 

A: Will calling him move you closer where you want to be or further away? Sometimes our subconscious just needs to work something out. It doesn’t always mean we need to leap to conclusions or take the dreams literally. If you ask your intuition and sit quietly with the possibility of contacting them, you’ll get a definite answer to the first question I posed and then you can respond from a grounded place or find that you can simply let it go. 

Now over to you: 

Q: Have you ever dreamt of an ex and did you ever follow that nudge to reach back out? What advice would you have? Share by leaving a comment on the blog! 

PS: If your ex keeps coming up, it may be for a reason! Click here to book a private reading and get some clarity! 

The Death of Your Single Self…

Happy Tuesday!

I was speaking with a good friend the other day about the progression of being single, to dating again, to being in a relationship, getting engaged/making a commitment and one of the things I feel like no one really talks about is the death of your single self. 

That transition from being with yourself only… to being with yourself and another person. 

From complete and total independence…to interdependence.

There is a mourning that may need to happen in that transition that I feel gets ignored. 

A death of one identity as the new one takes shape and yo begin to navigate yourself in it, someone else!

And this isn’t just with your ‘relationship’ status.

It could be with your job. 

Or your place of residence.

It seems everyone I speak with these days is gong through some kind of death/rebirth!

It’s beautiful, it can feel messy and it will be so much more impactful if you allow yourself all the feelings that arise when going from one stage to the next.

As you’ve probably guessed by now, I don’t necessarily have a neat and tidy 5-steps to mourn your single self post for you today. 

Today is about simply opening up the conversation with yourself and exploring:

  1. Where do you feel like you are transitioning in your life?
  2. What feelings arise when you imagine releasing one identity to birth another? 
  3. What comes up for you around your current relationships and what do you fear you will lose if you merge deeper with another? 

Deep questions, yes!

I’m curious to see who actually pulls out the journal-if you are one of the brave ones, hit reply nd let me know one gem that comes up for you! 

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