can I assert myself + still be feminine?

Happy Wed!

How are you?

It’s Q+A time!

Today’s Q+A from our community: “Diana, I struggle with feeling comfortable asserting myself and standing up for myself. I’ve been told that that’s not “feminine” and I am trying to be more in my feminine to attract a soul mate relationship. Can I do both? Where should I start? Help!”

This is such a great question! 

There is such a balance between wanting to be “feminine” and also respect yourself and voice how you feel/what’s okay and not okay.

We’ve been programmed by society, the media, well meaning friends and even family on how to be the ‘right’ kind of woman to attract a soul mate. And it can feel hard to know what “both” looks like.

But there’s a question underneath the question that you need to look at first…

Disclaimer: I recorded this after a meditation out in nature, so if my voice sounds a bit stoned, (I’m not) that’s why! 🙂 Bonus points if you can hang until the end to hear the adorable birds! 

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Love and Blessings,
Diana

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