5 Signs to Leave a Relationship

Happy Tuesday! 

How was your weekend? 

Did you remember to do something special for yourself? 

It could be something simple like taking 10 min to just read a book you’ve been meaning to. Or to just breathe and bestill and stare at the ceiling fan to calm your brain!

It’s so important, Goddess.

Today’s Q+A circles around a breakup potential of a relationship: “Hey Diana, I’ve been in this relationship for not that long but all my friends tell me to break up with him. I feel like I’ve been in and out of so many relationships an I don’t want to throw in the towel, but things have felt so tough. How do you know for sure when it’s time to leave a relationship? Please help! Thank you in advance!”

This isn’t a black and white ind of answer, but if you’re in a situation where you’re not sure to consider leaving, here are 5 signs that it may bedtime to consider moving forward with the breakup.

It’s never easy to leave a relationship, even if you now in your heart it’s time. 

But watching out for these 5 signs can help you assess your situation to make the decision a bit more clear. 

Q: Which one of these signs sticks out to you the most? What advice would you give someone considering a breakup? 

Leave us a comment and let us know!

How to Have a Happy Relationship (5 Secrets from Happily Committed Couples!)

Happy Tuesday to you!

Can I share some exciting news before we get into today’s post? 

This weekend I am getting married to my love!

If you’ve been following me for a while, you know it hasn’t been an easy road to get to this point!

I’ve had my heart broken, more than a few times.

I’ve broken hearts without meaning to.

I’ve doubted that I could ever love again or that maybe I was just too much for someone. 

I’ve feared letting someone in-what if they saw something they didn’t like and leave? 

So many things, Goddess!

But what I do know (OMG I channeled Oprah just then!) is that a ‘happy relationship’ is something  that can be cultivated. 

Once your inner ‘house’ is ready to receive another person and they you, there are things you can do to maintain a level of balance and happiness in your partnership.

And by the way, what I’m about to share also applies to friendships and other relationships too!

Here are 5 secrets to a happy relationship:

For more secret nuggets, watch the video but here is the quick cliff-notes version:

  1. Calendar ‘couple time’
  2. Find something to appreciate about the other person daily-and express it.
  3. Maintain your personal joy (don’t stop doing the things that make you happy). Be responsible for your own happiness.
  4. Make each other a priority.
  5. Explore professional support to make the relationship stronger.

ps: Want more support? Schedule a private, complimentary Into To Love Consultation here!

Are You Ready to Feel Free in Your Relationships? July Message Inside!

Happy July to you!

With all the change and upheaval from June, you may find yourself ready to take a long…deep breathe. 

A lot of you have shared with me that you’ve let go of relationships that weren’t serving you, you may have upgraded your communication and also boundaries and now, you may wonder, what’s next?!

There may be a space between, a corridor from where you were…to where you’re going when itches to your relationships and in this space, a lot is up for debate. 

What do you believe?

What has your full heart? 

What do you just not care about anymore no matter how much you used to before? 

Can you give yourself room to grow, even if you’re not sure what is going to happen? 

Click below to access the July Oracle Forecast video to learn more about the energy of this month!

And remember-you are as free as you believe you are.

And the Universe loves you. 

PS: Would you like to make major strides in your feminine attraction and call in a deeper level of love? Book an intro to Coaching consult call here!

If You’re Gonna Break Dishes, Use a Garbage Liner! (Q+A Time!)

Happy Tuesday! 

Today, I take your Goddess questions from the community.

It’s officially Q+A time: “Diana, do you have any creative or spiritual tools that can help me let go of anger towards my ex?”

A: Oh, you betcha! Here are 4 things you can do…

  1. Break dishes ( just use a garbage liner!). Imagine all the anger going into the dishes and you can declare all the things you need to say to your ex and then ask that it will be offered and released to the Divine through the breaking of the dishes. 
  2. Break a coconut (learned this from Tosha Silver) – similar process as dishes – but you can break a coconut in a safe place. NOTE: Discard the coconut after and don’t use it for anything else! 
  3. Write a letter, voice it and burn it. Don’t hold back Goddess! Say it all – voice it in the mirror, imagining your ex is in front of you and burn it symbolically releasing the energy hold on you.
  4. Cut energetic cords! When we hold energy with another person, we form energetic ‘cords’ that looks like ropes to them and they us. Cord cutting is a process I describe in my book, The Dating Mirror: Trust Again, Love Again and while cords of Leo can never be cut, toxic ties can. This frees up your energy and also the other person if they are open to it!

All of these can assist you in moving energy with an ex or any situation, belief or person that you’re ready to move on from. 

Q: Which one of these will you play with this week? 

Let me know by leaving a comment and if you would like assistance in your specific situation, go here to book a coaching consultation or intuitive reading. 

When You’re Not Sure Which Way to Go… Do This!

Ever been torn between two options when t comes to a relationship?

Both may seem equally appealing (or not) and it can sometimes feel really frustrating to know what to do. 

So the clients come to me with a conundrum like this, I invite them to move out of their head and into that playful, receptive open space of possibilities. 

In order to access that space, you can do this simple thing…try ’em on.

Try on each choice for 24 hours.

Just for 24 hours, imagine that you’ve already made the decision to do XYZ (choice 1).

Live with it for 24 hours, take it into your body and act as if.

Notice how your body feels throughout the day and how this choice informs how you speak, how you move in your world, etc. 

Then, journal on that at the end of the day.

Shake it off and take deep breaths.

Then, the next day, ‘try on’ the other choice. Repeat. 

You can gain invaluable information if you are willing to fully surrender to each choice. 

I’ve had clients tell me:

  • “I knew what I wanted to do in the middle of the day. It was clear-like my head couldn’t get in the way.”
  • “Neither choice felt expansive…I realize I’ve been discounting a third possibility. I don’t know what the looks like but I’m going to stay open to that presenting itself instead of feeling like I have to choose between these two only.”
  • “Both made my body feel pretty neutral. I realize it really doesn’t matter which one I choose-both create the same result in my body. Interesting…”

So, there you have it.

Q: Are you willing to ‘try on’ different options this week for a 24-hour period?

No need to attach to the outcome or judge yourself or the experience. 

It’s about gathering information from your intuition and your body. Who knows? You may even get a clear sign out in the world. 

What do you have to lose but getting in your way?

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