So, have you ever felt this internal struggle between wanting to move closer to something (or someone) but then freaking out about losing your freedom and independence?
Q: A question came in from a brave soul K via Facebook.
She writes, “My guy and I have talked about him moving into my place. His actions say that he’s on board but then I heard that his friends say he’s not sure and scared of losing his freedom. Is this normal? Help!”
A: (the short version is YES). It doesn’t matter whether it’s a relationship next step like moving in or a business next step like merging assets. Change is SCARY.
Watch the video below to learn:
- My 3 step process to tame fear of losing your freedom (or deal with another person’s insecurities involved in your big step!)
- The secret to moving WITH the fear vs letting it consume you (it’s a very simple shift in language but most people don’t go there!)
- How to have more energy and actually have fun as you go through the process of taking your next big leap!
Q: Have you ever felt afraid of losing your freedom when you move towards what you want? What helped you navigate that? Share in the comments below!
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