You get what you’re aligned with, not what you ask for

*names have been changed for privacy

Have you ever heard the expression, “Is Cupid taking a piss?”

Or felt like, “Man, I am doing all the right things. I have my vision board in place, I’m saying mantras till I’m blue in the face and I’m getting crap back. 

What’s up Universe?”

You are not alone. I’ve been there and gotten the T-shirt as my friend Helen says and so have my amazingly talented and super intuitive clients. 

*One client, Angela, kept saying she wanted a spiritual soulmate, someone to share her life with.

Someone who treated her with respect and kindness.

She hadn’t always respected herself and in the past, had willingly given away her power to men in her life.

Uh, been there done that.

But she was ready for that to change. 

What happened: 

She attracted men easily and the men that came into her world after she declared it were interesting, handsome….and wanted something casual. Sex. Or conversation. Sometimes both. A good time.

But unlike the men from her past, these men did accept her for who she was and never judged her. That was a new feeling.

At first, she kept saying, “What the heck Universe? What’s going on? What am I doing wrong?”

But after digging deeper into it, she got clear that at this particular time in her life, she didn’t really want something committed and lasting. 

She wanted to have fun with men who treated her with respect and kindness. 

To experience her power as a female from a healthy place with a man. 

That would be a massive breakthrough for her and it was in complete alignment with her Soul.

That was more of her Truth than the whole till-death-do-us-part relationship she swore she wanted.

And as soon as she saw that she created exactly that, she laughed heartily!

“I got exactly what I wanted! The Universe is awesome!”

She was free.

Yes, you too are that powerful.

Let’s break it down, okay?



3 Core Spiritual Principles:

  • You have to be a vibrational match for what you’re asking for.
  • We don’t always get what we ask for.
  • We get what we believe we can have and are aligned with at a cellular level.  Tweet that!

So, what do I, you know, do Diana? I get asked a lot. 

My down and dirty response:

If you want to work on strengthening something, work on strengthening your “alignment and faith” muscle. Then all the other stuff-the vision boards, the mantras, the meditations, the yoga will supplement that. 

Otherwise you will sabotage your good when you get it.

Or you’ll draw in things that validate what you think you deserve on a subconscious level.

Want to learn how to get out of your own way?

I’d love to help!

Sign up for my FREE class that’s coming up August 25! 



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