hmmm..what would you do in this situation?

Happy Wed!

Today is Q+A, where I take your questions and share insights to help our entire community.

Today’s question: “The guy that just recently broke up with me wants to meet up with me. He made a point to let me know it would be “just as friends,” which is really confusing because I still love him. If he’s truly over me, why does he even want to meet? I’m torn-what should I do?”

Ah, the mixed message dilemma.

This is a valid question-when someone you still love shares that they want to meet up in person, especially if it’s a recent breakup, it can feel like a dance between false hope (maybe they’ll change their mind and realize how awesome you are) and Ego revenge (how dare he even think I would consider going!)

But it’s not so black and white with matters of the heart.

Here’s my suggestion

What would you suggest? Leave a comment!

ps: Totally last minute but tonight at 7pm Pacific, I am hosting a free group coaching call with my friend Lee Cholodenko for MEN. If you know anyone who could benefit, check out the free training we did here that also has a link to sign up for the free coaching call:

your jan 2020 message inside + a gift!

Happy New Year, Decade, January!

Holy cannoli-if you’re ready for a breakthrough, banner year, 2020 is your time.

It is such an honor to be in your inbox-and my intent is to provide high octane, top-notch quality content this year to help you transform your relationships, starting with the one you have with the Goddess in the mirror 🙂

If you’re new to my world, welcome!

Every first week of the month, I love to share a monthly Goddess oracle card forecast!

How it works: 

I pull a card for each day of the week and I highly recommend you grab a sheet of paper and pen to pause the video on each card, asking, “What could this card mean for me?”

If you’ve been in my community for awhile, you know I always encourage you to trust your intuition and develop that muscle to tap into your own Truth.

In this video, you’ll learn:

the overall theme of 2020 and a week by week intuitive nudge

what the big deal is about January 12

how you can plan ahead and create empowered relationships, no matter what the energetic ‘weather.’

Watch it here:

ps: Happy New Decade gift: Many of my private clients and friends consider themselves to be empaths, or those who have a heightened sensitivity and gift for feeling other people’s emotions, among other things. Is this you too?

If you are an empath, you tend to attract ‘takers’ in relationships and that’s the last thing I want for you in this brilliant new energy! Learning how to manage this gift is crucial so…

I created a free list for you! It’s called, the ’21 Best Practices for Empaths.’

Download it for free right here

Here’s to new beginnings!

before you close out the year, do this..

Merry Xmas and Happy New Moon Eclipse to you!

Wow-it feels so special to be writing you on this double-whammy high-octane energy day. 

What are you up to this Xmas? 

I’ve spent Xmases single and sad, alone and ecstatic, coupled and wanting to be alone and coupled and blissfully together! I find that this day can be very magical or very annoying depending on your perspective!

So often in the last few days of the year, it can be really easy to just gloss over things and focus on the upcoming New Year.

Which, don’t get me wrong-2020 is going to blow all our socks off in a great way (more on that in next week’s video) …

But it’s so important to sink in and spend a bit of time honoring and reflecting upon the year.

So you don’t make the same mistakes twice.

Or forget to honor and celebrate all the amazing shifts and wins and lessons you experienced so you can take that wisdom with you!

Can I help you finish out the year?

Block off 15-30 minutes for yourself.

Slip into something cozy and comfy.

And grab a journal and pen.

To make it easy, here are 4 of my favorite sentence stems to journal on before the bell strikes 12 midnight on Dec 31 wherever you are in the world.

1. What I’m most proud of from 2019 is….

2. One big thing I released from my life was…

3. My biggest challenge was…

4. What I’m most committed to and excited about creating for 2020 is…


1. Let yourself flow-don’t edit as you go (I’m so guilty of that!). Just allow your feelings to come out.

2. Clear distractions-turn off your phone and do this away from FB and social…seriously. You are that important.

3. Celebrate when you’re done! Blow out a candle, dance to Lizzo, make a meal for yourself. 

These 4 prompts can help you gracefully wrap up 2019 so you can float freely and lightly into 2020 and all its amazingness!

It’s been such an honor to share these weekly musings with you.

BONUS: If you feel guided, hit reply and share with me one thing that you’ve taken away from these tips. I love reading these!

I am psyched to continue to connect with you and help you be your most empowered, sparkly self so you can receive all the LOVE that wants to come your way!

Over and out, with lots of Goddess sequins and cue my exit music please <<<big band 20’s music will do just fine>>>.

See you next year!

i need some space

Happy Wednesday!

Have you ever been dating someone and then, they go cold on communication out of nowhere?

This can be so confusing and hurtful.

Thoughts like, ‘Did I just screw up?’ 
What’s wrong with me?
Why don’t they want to be with me? can come up.

This question came in from our community and I wanted to answer it as December really is the perfect time to acknowledge old patterns and make a new choice that empowers you.

Q: I am in an ldr (long distance relationship) with a guy I started to date 2 months back. We had attraction as well as the emotional connection…but his behavior has changed tremendously in the last month. He doesn’t text or call anymore and if I do then he gives the excuse of “I’m busy.” Does giving space to a guy and not contacting him at all makes him realize that he need to rekindle the relationship? Have I ruined everything by contacting him, even though he ignores me?”

A: Watch my response below

Have you ever dealt with funky ghosting in an LDR? What advice would you give? Share your thoughts below! 

Want more support? Relationship coaching can help you break patterns that are blocking love from coming into your life that last. Book a complimentary consultation here and let’s talk!

want to feel more confident around using your intuition? do this!

Happy Wed!

Today’s Q+A comes from Facebook:

“Diana, I feel like I second guess myself a lot. How do I feel more confident about the messages I’m getting from my gut feelings and intuition?

Training yourself to trust and follow your intuition is a muscle that anyone can get better at. It’s like going to the gym. 

Practice, positioning your body in the right alignment and most of all, confidence even when you’re just starting out is important.

Can I be your spiritual gym coach? 

Side note: I hired a personal trainer and OMG, best decision ever, although some days are really really hard to make happen.

But in response to this question, here is a video where you’ll learn:

  • the secret to getting stronger intuitive messages (it’s simple but most of us miss it because we try to complicate everything!)
  • the biggest thing getting in your way of trusting your gut feelings
  • my ridiculously simple daily tip that can up your chances of getting an accurate message for yourself (consider it your spiritual reps!)