i’m spiritual but he’s not. will it last? find out!

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A question I’ve just recently been asked is, “Can two people with different spiritual beliefs stay together for the long haul?”

More specifically, what happens when one person is on the spiritual path and one is not?

Is the relationship or friendship doomed?

It’s a great question! Let’s look at it from 3 key areas.

 

Step 1: Know what your deal breakers are for your beliefs/spirituality and pick your partners accordingly!

First off, it’s important to know what your relationship or friendship deal breakers are.

The things in a relationship (platonic or intimate) that you are unwilling to compromise on.

And then use that as a filter for who you allow in your inner circles.

Is it important to you that your best friend or life partner share the exact same beliefs and practice as you?

Example: I go to church twice a week, so so should they. I believe in Angels, so should they.

Or is having just a complementary, open-minded approach to life enough?

Example: They know I love Angels, and while they don’t pull Angel cards with me, they respect that I channel them and we practice gratitude daily before we go to sleep.

Knowing what you truly need in a partnership (or even a friendship) and communicating that can affect the longevity of the relationship because you are being true to yourself from the get-go.

 

Step 2: Identify if you are tolerating or compromising (an example)

If you’ve communicated how much it means to you that your man comes to a spiritual workshop with you at least once every 3 months and every time you bring it up, he’s turning on the T.V and tuning you out (and you don’t say anything), that is tolerating.

Over time, tolerating can turn to resentment and that can lead to leading separate lives and possibly, a permanent separation.

If on the other hand, you have had the same conversation and your man comes back with, “Honey, I know how much having me go with you makes you happy, but an important game is on the same day as the workshop you want to attend. Can you pick another date for us to go next month?” that is compromising.

It’s not about always getting what you want when you want it. It’s when both parties are staying true to themselves and also consciously tuning into the needs and desires of their partner to have a win: win.

Make sense?

 

Step 3: Listen to your intuition

As always, the question of “will it last?” depends on (1) how true each person is being to themselves (2) how that gets communicated in the relationship and (3) ultimately, if you want to stay or not! No one is making you stay! You deserve to be happy.

There are different ways to “be on the spiritual path” and if you are fulfilled in all your core areas but spirituality, ask your intuition if you can get creative with seeing another way you can share spiritual principles with each other than the obvious.

I used the example of sharing something you’re grateful for with each other everyday, which is a spiritual concept without using spiritual jargon like “meditation, chakras or Angels.”

Find yours.

Or if you are both so divided that you find yourself resenting your partner, ask your intuition if it’s time to head your own separate ways.

You may have outgrown the relationship or it may have served its purpose.

And then you can take the steps to heal and move forward if need be.

Either way, listen and act from a space of loving yourself and the rest of the details tend to figure themselves out!

 

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Q: Do you want to learn more about how you can open your heart to true love again?

I’m teaching a free online workshop “How to Let Go Of Your Love Blocks with the Romance Angels”  on the New Moon, Friday, December 11th @8pm EST.

Pop in your email below to opt-into this call.

Note: You will receive call details once you sign up below!

 

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it’s time to let go

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Happy Tuesday and Happy December!

How are you feeling?

Have you been feeling that deep knowing inside of you that things in your life are about to change for the better?

Like everything you thought you knew about yourself is up for re-negotiation and revision?

If so, you’re right on schedule.

December’s energies are all about:

  • purging the past (especially with long-standing family-related issues)
  • self-love and self-compassion
  • receiving gifts (tangible or not) in exchange for stepping into your Truth and being bold in what you allow in and what you say buh-bye to.

Ring a bell?

In short: it’s time to let go.

Let go of control.

Let go of the need to have other people’s approval.

Let go of the mean thoughts that are not loving to yourself.

Let go. Let go. Let go.

Quick story: For the past few days, I’ve been home with a stomach flu. I had to cancel appointments, be still and simply allow myself to heal.

The stomach is all about letting go of the past (I mean…hello!) and needless to say, lying in bed forced me to call upon all the tools I share with you guys.

Calling on the Angels to help me feel supported.

Giving myself Reiki every morning and night to soften my belly and my mind.

Journaling like my life depended on it so I could shift my focus from the pain to the pen.

And most importantly, letting myself see the Truth about what’s important to me and what it’s time to let go of.

One of the biggest things that is important to me is to teach and to help you feel re-connected to yourself and your Truth, especially in relationships.

So…I’m offering 3 opportunities for us to connect in the next 2 weeks. (scroll down!)

On the letting go side, I found that stuff just kept coming up that I didn’t expect. I got really emotional.

In fact, it was pouring out so much that I even made a “Letting Go List”.  

Some of the things that ended up on there include:

:: letting go of weird decorative objects I was keeping in my home because they were gifted to me but that aren’t my style

:: letting go of making elaborate excuses to avoid saying “No” to invitations I have no desire accepting. (a graceful No, thank you is sufficient!)

:: letting go of guilt around setting boundaries around my time and space (especially with family)

:: letting go of engaging in disempowering conversations or listening to gossip (there are better ways to “bond with me!”)

:: letting go of one-way street relationships that leave me tired and feeling used.

This week’s invitation: Make a Letting Go List

What’s on yours? Take a pen and paper out and let your heart lead you.

When you’re done, say each one aloud and tear it up or burn it!

It’s time for you to free yourself.

Are you game? Hit reply and share one with me!

Let’s have fun! “One thing I let go of is…”

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3 Announcements: Mark Your Calendars!

The big let go for me business-wise this year is…letting go of my Blog Talk radio show starting January 1.

I have so much enjoyed being on air with some incredibly special guests, but all signs point within me to “let it go” and I’ve learned to listen to that still powerful voice inside when it comes up.

#1 This Thursday, Dec 3 “Tips to Heal Yourself During the Holidays”

@8pm EST

Cost: FREE

I will be bringing on my special guest this Thursday, my mentor, international healer and a truly spiritual teacher, Althea Gray. She is magical and you won’t want to miss her, so please mark your calendars. Please tune into the show here: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/dancinggoddess

#2 Next Friday, Dec 11 (New Moon!) “Letting go of Love Blocks with the Angels”

Cost: FREE tele-call with yours truly.

@8pm EST.

You don’t have to opt-in. Just write down this info to join me!

Attend by Phone:

Guest pin code: 908199#

Primary dial in number: (425) 440-5100

Secondary dial in number: (415) 633-4267

Full list of dial in Numbers:

http://InstantTeleseminar.com/Local/?eventid=77869731

Event Page:

http://iTeleseminar.com/77869731

#3 Would you like me to be your spiritual mentor or coach for 2016? Let’s find out if we’re a good fit!

I have just a handful of spots left to work with me privately in January and I’d love love love the opportunity to help you reach your true Soul potential next year.

To make sure we’re a perfect fit, I’d love to hop on the phone or Skype with you for a FREE 15-minute chat to discuss your goals and help you make the best decision for your life.

Please click here

Have a fantastic start to December and stay warm wherever you are in the world!

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Can’t wait to connect with you in one (or ALL!) of the 3 events above.

Love and Angel Blessings,

Diana

 

how to ask for a sign that you’re on the right track

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Have you ever asked for a sign that you were on the right track?

Or to get extra reassurance that it was all going to be okay?

I ask for signs for everything!

Like I mentioned last week, working with the Angelic realm to help me navigate the world of love and life has become second nature.

It’s one of the first things I teach new students of intuition and my private clients.

Because surrendering can be really tough.

Doing it all yourself can be really frustrating.

{Quick reminder: I have Angel to the Rescue readings at the special holiday rate available until tomorrow night! If you’ve been wanting to get a session with me but haven’t because of circumstances or timing, this is a great opportunity for you. Click here.}

Can I share a quick story with you?

Asking for a Sign: True Story

Awhile back, I was going through a particularly rough relationship patch.

I had made a decision and wasn’t sure it was the right one.

I pulled cards until I was blue in the face and felt restless and irritable because none of them were giving me what I wanted to hear (note: it’s super hard to be neutral and objective when  you are pulling Angel cards for yourself around something that’s incredibly personal to you!)

And I remember standing in the kitchen, taking a deep breath and closing my eyes.

I felt the tears coming on and when I got quiet, I heard a whisper that said, “Ask us for a sign and we will let you know that we are with you.”

Duh.

I was so wrapped up in trying to wield relief from the emotional pain I was feeling that I forgot to ask the Angels for a sign like I usually do when I’m in a pickle.

So I did.

And in less than 24 hours, I drove in to find a beautiful feather waiting for me right by the car port.

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Now, to be fair, sometimes a feather is just a feather.

The difference is in how you ask …how much you believe….and how you feel.

When I asked for the sign, I literally wanted it to be in front of me. I said something to the effect of “Angels, thank you for sending me a sign in the material world that I can easily understand.”

I also believed with every fiber of my being that it would be delivered at the right time, my senses were super heightened when I reached down to pick up that feather.

I felt chills throughout my body and peace and warmth around my heart space.

That’s how I knew it was my sign.

Otherwise, I would have felt totally neutral or maybe amused, but it hit home in a place that I needed.

That’s the power of calling on the Angels for assistance.

So in short, this week, are you open to asking the Angels for a clear sign in the material world that you can easily understand to help you feel supported?

Give it go and drop me a line on the blog!

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PS: If you have something weighing on your heart right now that you KNOW deep down you could use support with, consider investing in an Angel to the Rescue reading while they are available at the special holiday rate!

Click here + let’s get you clarity A.S.A.P!

 

you don’t have to know what’s next but you must master this…

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I was speaking with a girlfriend the other night and she was sharing with me how for the first time in her life, she had no clue what was next for her.

Have you ever felt like that before?

: general low-level frustration

:: a bit of anxiety because you’re so used to having a crystal clear vision, taking action on it and feeling powerful and on-track….. and

:: a strange “what’s next?” feeling because all of a sudden, it’s not so black and white anymore?

You’re in a gray watercolor and you’re not sure how to swim out or even where you’d swim to.

I’ve been there many times, both in my professional life and personal one.

You accomplish everything on your “goal” list and then it’s like…okay, is that all there is?

Do I make another list of goals? A bigger more exciting one? Or do I ditch the list? Am I bad for not making a list? Maybe I should be doing more, wanting more, is there something wrong with me? OMG!!!!!

It can be a mental merry-go-round, right?

What I realized:

It’s not always about knowing what’s next. It’s about being okay with sitting in the stillness and accepting it. TWEET THAT.

And I don’t know about you, but for me, being still can feel torturous.

I’m a dancer afterall! We want to move move move!

But be still internally we must if we are ever to experience a true breakthrough.

Like a little seedling, slowing growing up towards the light.

Over-watering it can kill this delicate bud.

Under-watering it can shrivel it.

But just letting it be there.

Letting it sit there and loving it for where it is.

That’s huge.

So, that’s my short but powerful offering for you this week. Said a few different ways:

  1. Stop avoiding the stillness. Listen to what it has to share with you.
  2. Stop making yourself ‘wrong’ for not having a clear plan on what’s next. Be here. Now. It’s enough.
  3. Accept the void of what is to be prepared for what is coming.

Which statement above resonates with you this week? #1, 2 or 3? Let me know in the comments and take it and make it yours!

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what to do when your dream lands in your lap and your gut isn’t 100% sold

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Your dream job comes to you.

A relationship you’re in is about to go to the next level…it’s getting serious!

You’re getting recognition and media invitations for the work you’ve been doing.

It’s finally here….

Only your intuition and your gut isn’t 100% sold on the idea.

What? your logical mind says.

Why don’t you want this?

This is what you’ve been dreaming out/whining about/working towards for-ever.

So, what should you do when this situation comes up?

I’ve got you covered.

In this video you will learn:

    • the real reason why your gut isn’t on board with your dream
    • the one thing you must get clear on before you say “Yes!” or “No!” to the opportunity
    • you’ll get to hear a real-life example from my client files (anonymous) of how she handled this like a pro
    • and finally, you’ll be invited to share your insights and comments after you watch with me + our community!

Q: Have you ever been given an opportunity that seemed perfect on paper but your gut told you something was off? How did you handle it? Share with us in the comments below!

ps: Are you ready to Live Like a Goddess?

Tonight’s the last night to register for my FREE 3-week video challenge to help you shed your old skin and feel happy, adored and free….just in time for the holidays!

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