Want to be adored? Stop doing this!

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“How can I get my husband to appreciate me more?”

 

“I work so hard, and feel like no one seems to even notice.”

 

“Money comes into my life and it seems to go out just as fast? Why?”

 

Appreciation. Acknowledgement and Financial Abundance.

 

Those are the three biggest things that I hear people talking about CONSTANTLY.

 

How can we get more of THAT?

 

It’s easy.

 

Get a pen.

 

This is super deep.

 

Are you ready?

 

My million dollar answer. This is going to make me famous. And it’s going to make you rich and adored.

 

Here it is: Stop complaining. Not just out loud. But even inside your own head. Just stop it!

 

It’s so easy to say but between all the media negativity and outside energies, it can be really challenging to put into practice.

 

But if what you want is a better, richer life with a loving man (or woman) by your side plus the Benjamins in the bank, this is a non-negotiable spiritual law.

 

The Law (in my own words for you is):

 

“The strongest energy ALWAYS wins. We all have light and Shadow sides to our psyche, our thoughts and most importantly to the vibration we choose to put out into the world. Whichever energy is dominant is the one that will be responsible for manifesting whatever it is you see in your external reality.” Period.

 

Are you with me?

 

So, my invitation to you? Go on a COMPLAINING fast. For the next 24 hours. I double triple dare you!

 

This is harder than it appears. You’d be surprised how many times you may catch yourself complaining in passing and if you do complain, each time you catch yourself, I want you to:

 

1.STOP.

 

2. Close your eyes.

 

3. Breathe in and out and say “I now choose to stop cutting off my financial  flow” (Even if your finances are in awesome shape, there’s something really tangible that hits home when we use the word “financial flow.” But feel free to substitute your own power statement here so that it feels authentic for you and what you want to create more of.

 

Take Action: Your Spirit Challenge!

 

1. Will you be a part of our Spirit challenge this week?

If you are a YES, post a YES in the “Leave a Comment” section on here! I want to cheer you on!

 

2. Prizes!

After your 24 hours are complete (Deadline to post is Friday, April 12) , for anyone who posts a comment with 1-3 sentences of how the Complaining Challenge positively affected your day, I will be emailing a fun prize to!

Note: You MUST post with your full email address or I won’t know where to send your freebie!

 

3. If you want to learn more about getting respect and feeling adored and understood in your relationships with family, friends and lovers, I HIGHLY recommend my new audio course, Find Your Spirit, Find Yourself. Check it out here: www.URintuitive.com/realms2.html

 

Have a Blessed week and thank you so much for reading!

 

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Love,

Diana

Surrender

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It’s officially April! All around us new life is birthing and new ideas, insights and opportunities could be coming to you from a variety of places.

There’s no going back.

There may a deep and profound knowing within you that some part of your life will never be the same. Maybe you left someone behind. Maybe you were the one left. Maybe you left a home behind. Maybe you’re moving. Getting or losing a job. Or perhaps, shedding an old perspective that no longer serves you?

 

The Fun

It can feel like everything is moving so fast that sometimes internally, you’re playing catch-up. Or vice versa. You may be very clear about where you want to go but the external, the material world is lagging a bit in co-creating that manifestation. It’s okay. The timing, the slow-downs, the frustrations. It’s all part of a bigger Divine plan.

 

You may not know exactly what that is, but what’s the fun in knowing all the answers, roads and destinations ahead of time? Some of those roads are unpaved at the moment, waiting for you to fill in the cracks or write the end of a chapter so you can create and head down a new yellow brick road that is just perfect for you.

 

Is it easy? Maybe not. Is it necessary? Your Spirit will tell you that. If you’re living your life based on what your intuition shares with you in quiet moments, April will be a wild, crazy fun adventure. If you’re not and you’re constantly looking for validation or answers outside of yourself, April could be hell.

 

It’s really about the balance isn’t it? Knowing when you’re spun out in your head thinking it’s your intuition (great time to get an intuitive reading to help you access what is your True Higher wisdom) and knowing when your intuition is right on point, but there’s a bit of fear at having to make the changes necessary to fulfill that Soul-guided message.

 

 

Your April Surrender Plan:

 

The key is surrender. In typical Diana-like fashion, I’m going to acronym it for you.

 

Surrender is about:

 

S=Simplifying your life

 

U=Understanding that you are exactly where you need to be

 

R=Remembering to count your blessings

 

R=Re-considering what you really want

 

E=Eating foods that uplift and nourish the Soul vs. unconscious stuffing to avoid emotions

 

N=Never being afraid to say, “I need help.”

 

D=Dancing everyday, even if it’s just in your mind (your subconscious doesn’t know the difference :))

 

E=Ending a chapter that has long been over, even if it’s hard

 

R=Remembering to make time for fun. It doesn’t have to be all work and no play. Your Inner child will rejoice!

 

Your Soul Hour: Are you coming?

 

Have a blessed April and to help you and lift the vibration of our entire community and world, I’d love to have you as my honored guest on Sunday, April 7th for an tele-party called “Your Soul Hour”

 

It’s free and you can come get a mini-reading or ask a question to your Spirit Guides/the Angels to help you get on track for Spring!

 

RSVP required and there will be a recording as everyone can benefit from the questions asked. We are truly all one.

 

Click here to join me and RSVP:

 

Love and Blessings,

Diana

 

ps: If you want to ramp up your RELATIONSHIPS (family, friends, lovers, etc)

TODAY is the last day for the intro rate on my new self-paced audio course: Find Your Spirit Realm, Find Yourself! Go  here to snag the deal!

 

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Want to be famous? Try this!

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3 ways to spruce up your “Fame” space

 

Do you secretly want to be famous?

Want to be well-known in your field or be known as the one to go to for a particular thing?

I’m a huge fan of integrating intuition with space clearing as I’ve found that sometimes shifting our OUTER world can trigger our subconscious/inner worlds. When the two worlds are in harmony, you experience manifestation and flow.To keep it very simple, choose one room in your home that you’d like to work some “fame” energy on.

*When you walk in the room, look towards the back CENTER. That is your FAME/reputation space. 

NOTE: Before using any of these 3 suggestions, I always recommend a thorough de-cluttering and cleaning of the space for maximum benefit.

 

1. Use the colors orange, red and yellow/gold to decorate! Get creative!

The element of this space is FIRE, so you want to stay away from black, which represents WATER. And using logic, water puts out fire, so keep your black vases and desks away from this area.

 

2. Triangles and diamonds rule:

This area loved the shapes that have points like triangles, diamonds, etc. So, if you have a beautiful rug, angle it slightly or if you are on a budget, you can literally cut out triangle shapes on orange construction paper and tape them to the bottom of your favorite desk or chair legs!

 

3. Post your awards!

Have you been in the paper for anything? Do you have any certificates or diplomas? This is the place to hang them up and display them proudly!  For extra benefit, again, use firey or earth tones vs. black frames to capitalize on the fire elements.

Below is an example of one of my fame corners. Note the geometric shapes in the fabric and in the center is an amethyst, which is all about spiritual knowledge and healing from higher planes. Hindu Goddess and God, Lakshmi and Ganesh complete this cozy fame space. 

famefeng-shui 

Extra tip:

Ask yourself, “What do I want to be known for?” Cut out pictures, make a vision board or add photos or snippets that represent that to put in this area. Example: One lady I know wanted to be on TV, so she literally created a TV frame out of construction paper and put a picture of herself in the frame! Soon after, she landed her own show!

 

Your Turn!

1. Which do you want to be known for?

2. Do you have any ideas on how to spruce up your space?

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Have a fabulous week!

 

Love,

Diana

Do you undervalue yourself?

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“I worked for a menial’s hire,

Only to learn dismayed,

That any wage I had asked of Life,

Life would have willingly paid.”

-Jessie B Rittenhouse

 

I first read that quote in Napolean Hill’s Think and Grow Rich and everytime I re-read it, I find something new (great quotes do that!).

 

Have you ever done any of the following?

 

  • Said YES to a friend’s request for a favor even when you really wanted to say NO but you were too afraid?
  • Said YES to the first offer in a job that know you’re overqualified for but you are too afraid to counter-offer and command what you really know you’re worth?
  • Said YES to a lover or spouse and done something (or accepted some kind of behavior) that made you feel less than or frustrated afterwards?

 

If you say YES to any of those, chances are you are undervaluing yourself in some area of your life. (By the way, you’re not alone in this camp. The reason I wrote those examples is because I’ve said YES to all three in the past and I know how soul-sucking it can be!)

 

As it relates to your most important relationships, are there places where you see your energy being leaked simply because it’s too scary to rock the boat?

 

You’ll notice a common theme in all those 3 questions above: FEAR.

 

Fear of not being liked.

 

Fear of losing something or someone (sometimes before you even have it!)

 

Fear of confrontation and not being loved for who you are.

 

But I don’t want to focus on fear. You are a highly conscious, intuitive being (I love you!) and it’s so easy for us to focus on releasing fears, over-processing and putting energy into how to fix something when my opinion is this:

 

What if….

 

What if there was nothing for you to fix?

 

What if instead you chose to put your focus on ACCEPTANCE and truly loving yourself?

 

What if you felt afraid and did it anyway?

 

What’s the worst thing that could be possibly happen?

 

If we go back to the quote at the top, “…any wage I had asked of Life,

Life would have willingly paid.”  I have to ask you the scary question:

 

What kind of WAGE do you WANT?

 

And when you think about your most precious relationships, WAGE = The qualities of how you intend to be treated and treat others.

 

Example: Respected, harmonious communication, powerful, sexy…you get it, right?

 

See, most people want the Universe to give them a big ole HANDOUT because they are too lazy to take personal responsibility for their failure to say what it is that they WANT in the first place!

 

The ones like you reading this know better. If you know what you want and you ASK for it, you’re 100000X more likely to actually get it than the person who says, “I don’t know. You decide Universe. Whatever. (But if I don’t like it, I’ll blame you!)

 

(You can tell this subject gets me riled up!)

 

Take Action: Your Turn!

 

So, I’m curious.

 

1) What is YOUR desired relationship wage?

 

2) If you’re brave, post your top 3 adjectives that describe how you intend to be treated/treat others using the leave a comment at the bottom of this post.

 

3) I love you (that’s not an action, but I just wanted to remind you of that!)

 

ps:

If you want to DRAMATICALLY increase your chances of being respected, heard and have relationships with the people in your life that people will envy, I’d LOVE to have you in my brand-new class “What’s My Spirit Realm: How to Rock Your Relationships and Become a Master Communicator!” starting next week!

 

Check it out here:

Have a fabulous rest of your week/start to SPRING and I look forward to reading your “Relationship Wage” adjectives!

 

Love and Blessings,

 

Diana

 

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Let your S.O.F.T side out

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Want more respect and a winning reputation? Let your S-O-F-T side out!

Aretha sang about it. You want it. More respect. That’s R-E-S-P-E-C-T!

There’s nothing more frustrating than feeling like you are in a one-sided conversation or feeling like your words don’t matter.

Luckily, there is something to help you have better communication with the person of your choice. Maybe it’s your son or daughter, a business partner, your lover or dare I say it, YOURSELF.

When you follow these steps, you have the potential to be known as a “5-star” communicator and you can watch your reputation and your energy skyrocket. I call it let your S-O-F-T side. Get a notepad!

But don’t take my word for it.

Try it out for yourself and remember, the action continues after you watch this video. Be sure to post a comment after you watch and share it with your friends!

In this video, you will learn:

 

  • How to stop going on the defensive when you’re about to have a difficult conversation
  • My secret tip to getting more respect without DOING anything
  • My easy 4-step, 5-minute process to building an awesome reputation (and relationships!)


Take Action Time: Your Turn!

1. Which of the 4-steps of the S.O.F.T process are YOU going to experiment with his week in your conversations?

2. Did you enjoy this post?
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